My question?
Hello, Doctor: I have had many girlfriends.
When I engage in sexual activities with women, they do not get pregnant, and the reason is truly due to me! I cannot conceive! I have previously visited a urologist for a semen analysis, but I have no desire at all, and since I am taking psychiatric medication, I lack interest, which is why I did not provide a sample.
I once read in a newspaper that men without sperm can still become fathers; is that true? I am also worried that my mental illness may be inherited by the next generation.
I love children, and as the eldest son, I feel pressured, but I am currently dependent on my parents and can barely support myself, let alone think about marriage and continuing the family line...
What should I do? I am a person with disabilities and exempt from military service; who would want me? But I still want to continue my family lineage!
A Yao, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2012/07/22
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
A-Yao: Hello, first think carefully about whether you want to have children.
Then consider whether there are any hereditary factors.
Currently, there are many methods of assisted reproduction, and there are numerous successful cases.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Online answers can only serve as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical care at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan, who cares about you.
Reply Date: 2012/07/22
More Info
Understanding male infertility can be a complex and emotionally charged topic, especially when it intersects with personal desires for family and societal expectations. Your concerns about infertility, the impact of mental health on your sexual desire, and the fear of passing on genetic conditions to future generations are valid and deserve careful consideration.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that male infertility can stem from various factors, including hormonal imbalances, genetic issues, anatomical problems, and lifestyle choices. In your case, it seems that you have already sought medical advice from a urologist, which is a crucial step. However, it’s concerning that you mentioned not having the opportunity to provide a semen sample due to a lack of sexual desire, which can be influenced by the psychiatric medications you are taking. Many psychiatric medications can affect libido and sexual function, leading to difficulties in achieving conception.
If you have not already done so, I recommend discussing your mental health treatment with your psychiatrist. They may be able to adjust your medication or suggest alternatives that could help improve your sexual desire. This is a critical aspect because, without the ability to produce a semen sample, it becomes challenging to diagnose the specific cause of your infertility.
Regarding your question about the possibility of having children even if you have no sperm, advancements in reproductive technology have indeed made it possible for individuals with certain types of infertility to become parents. For instance, if you have a condition known as azoospermia (the absence of sperm in the ejaculate), there are procedures like sperm retrieval techniques (e.g., testicular sperm extraction) that can be performed. These methods allow doctors to extract sperm directly from the testicles, which can then be used in assisted reproductive technologies like in vitro fertilization (IVF).
Furthermore, if sperm retrieval is not an option, there are other avenues to explore, such as using donor sperm. Many couples and individuals successfully conceive using donor sperm, and this can be a viable solution for you if you wish to have children. It’s essential to have open discussions with a fertility specialist who can guide you through these options and help you understand the implications of each choice.
Your concern about the potential hereditary nature of your mental health condition is also significant. While some mental health disorders can have a genetic component, it’s important to remember that many factors contribute to the development of these conditions, including environmental influences and personal experiences. If you are worried about passing on mental health issues to your children, consider seeking genetic counseling. A genetic counselor can provide insights into the risks and help you make informed decisions about family planning.
Lastly, it’s vital to address the emotional and psychological aspects of your situation. Feeling like you are unable to provide for a family or fearing societal judgment can be overwhelming. Engaging with a mental health professional who specializes in reproductive health can provide you with the support you need to navigate these feelings. They can help you develop coping strategies and work through any anxiety or depression you may be experiencing.
In summary, while your situation presents challenges, there are multiple pathways to parenthood available to you. It’s crucial to seek comprehensive medical advice, consider adjustments to your mental health treatment, and explore all reproductive options with a fertility specialist. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are professionals who can support you in achieving your dreams of parenthood while addressing your mental health concerns.
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