Can I Ask My Gynecologist About My Pregnancy Concerns?

Can I ask a question?

Hello, doctor: I had a blood test last week and was scheduled to return for a follow-up this Friday, but I would like to ask some questions instead.
If that's not possible, I will come in at the scheduled time to review the results.
I'm really scared because I met an old crush during a gathering with classmates in central Taiwan, and after dinner, we ended up having some intimate moments in the car, but it was external ejaculation.
I washed my genital area with Coke when I got home.
Is there a chance I could be pregnant? My last menstrual period started on September 7.
Is there a risk of something happening? Help me, please.
Thank you.

COST, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2012/09/17

Dr. Lin Wenbin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

To calculate the safe period based on menstruation, it is essential to have a regular menstrual cycle and be able to predict the timing of the next period.
The accuracy of this method for contraception is not very high.
Using cola to rinse the vagina cannot prevent pregnancy and may instead lead to vaginal inflammation.
Withdrawal (coitus interruptus) also carries the risk of pregnancy, as pre-ejaculatory fluid may contain sperm.
We can discuss the details further during your follow-up appointment on Friday, and we will also need to review the results of your last blood test.

Reply Date: 2012/09/17

More Info

It's completely understandable to have concerns and questions during pregnancy, especially when it comes to your health and the health of your baby. The best course of action is always to communicate openly with your gynecologist about any worries you may have. They are trained to address your concerns and provide you with the most accurate information based on your specific situation.

Regarding your recent experience, it’s important to note that the likelihood of pregnancy from the scenario you described—where ejaculation did not occur inside the vagina—remains low. However, it is not impossible, as pre-ejaculatory fluid can contain sperm. The fact that you had your period on September 7th also suggests that you are not currently pregnant, as menstruation typically indicates that ovulation and fertilization did not occur during that cycle.

As for your concerns about washing with soda or any other substance, it’s crucial to understand that the vagina is a self-cleaning organ. Introducing foreign substances, especially sugary or acidic ones like soda, can disrupt the natural pH balance and lead to infections or irritation. It's best to avoid such practices and stick to gentle, water-based hygiene methods.

If you are feeling anxious about the possibility of pregnancy or any other aspect of your health, I encourage you to reach out to your gynecologist before your scheduled appointment. Many healthcare providers are open to answering questions via phone or secure messaging systems, which can help alleviate your worries sooner rather than later.
In addition, if you have any specific symptoms or changes in your body that concern you—such as unusual discharge, pain, or significant changes in your menstrual cycle—these are also important topics to discuss with your doctor. Early communication can help address any potential issues and provide peace of mind.

Lastly, remember that pregnancy concerns are common, and you are not alone in feeling anxious about these matters. Many women experience similar worries, and healthcare providers are there to support you through this journey. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, seek clarification, and express your feelings during your visits. Your health and well-being, as well as that of your future child, are the top priorities.

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