The method of excitation has changed?
Hello, doctor: I have a habit of DIY, but recently, over the past two months, I've found it difficult to become aroused while watching adult films.
Sometimes I even ejaculate prematurely, possibly when I'm only about 50% to 60% erect.
On the other hand, I can easily become aroused by looking at non-explicit images.
Why has my arousal method changed? Is it because I have become desensitized to nudity, making it harder to get excited? If I take a break from adult films, can this situation improve? Since I have not yet had sexual experience but will need to engage in sexual activity in the future, what are the best ways to address this issue? I hope to receive your guidance!
SFS, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2013/07/08
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
SFS: Hello, you can take a break for a while, which will help improve your condition.
Exercising for at least 30 minutes every day can also lead to improvement.
If you have any further questions, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research together.
Please note that online responses should only be used as a reference; if necessary, you should seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department, Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan, who cares about you.
Reply Date: 2013/07/08
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Understanding changes in sexual arousal can be complex and multifaceted, often influenced by psychological, physiological, and contextual factors. Your experience of finding it increasingly difficult to become aroused while watching adult films, yet responding more readily to less explicit imagery, raises several interesting points worth exploring.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that sexual arousal is not solely a physical response; it is also heavily influenced by psychological factors. Over time, repeated exposure to the same type of stimuli—such as adult films—can lead to a phenomenon known as "habituation." This means that the initial excitement and novelty can diminish, making it harder to achieve the same level of arousal as before. In your case, it seems that the explicit nature of adult films may have become less stimulating for you, leading to a decreased response.
On the other hand, the fact that you find non-explicit images more arousing suggests that your brain may be responding to the novelty and the less direct stimulation. This could be a reflection of your current psychological state or a shift in what you find appealing. It’s not uncommon for individuals to experience fluctuations in their arousal patterns, especially when they are navigating their sexual identity and preferences.
Regarding your question about whether taking a break from adult films could help, the answer is yes. A temporary hiatus from explicit material can allow your brain to reset and may help restore your sensitivity to sexual stimuli. During this time, you might explore other forms of sexual expression or intimacy that do not involve explicit content, which can help you reconnect with your sexual feelings in a different context.
Additionally, since you mentioned that you have not yet had sexual experiences, it’s essential to consider that sexual arousal can also be influenced by the anticipation and anxiety surrounding sexual encounters. The pressure to perform or to meet certain expectations can create a mental block that affects arousal. Engaging in open conversations about sexuality, whether with a trusted friend or a professional, can help alleviate some of this pressure and provide you with a better understanding of your own desires and boundaries.
If you find that these changes in arousal continue to be a concern, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare professional, such as a urologist or a sex therapist. They can provide personalized insights and strategies to help you navigate your sexual health and arousal concerns. They may also suggest techniques such as mindfulness or relaxation exercises that can enhance your sexual experiences by reducing anxiety and increasing awareness of your body’s responses.
In summary, changes in sexual arousal can be influenced by a variety of factors, including habituation to stimuli, psychological states, and the context of sexual experiences. Taking a break from adult films, exploring different forms of sexual expression, and seeking professional guidance can all be effective strategies to help you understand and improve your sexual arousal. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and it’s perfectly normal to seek help and information as you navigate this aspect of your life.
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