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Hello, Doctor: I have a concern.
I visited a friend's shop, and my friend, who is a stylish and attractive sex worker, happened to have a client there.
This client, who is an older gentleman and a doctor, was suggested by my friend to engage in a threesome.
After much hesitation, I thought it might be exciting.
Fortunately, the client was respectful and only engaged in external rubbing without penetration.
I informed him that I wasn't using any contraception and hadn't been sterilized, so we couldn't have intercourse.
Doctor, my last menstrual period started on October 10.
Has my ovulation period passed? Is it safe since we used a condom?
huanzhe, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2013/10/21
Dr. Lin Wenbin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
After all, this method of sexual activity is not considered normal.
It also does not take into account the feelings of your loved ones.
Moreover, you cannot guarantee whether your friends are healthy or free from infectious diseases, so you cannot ensure your own safety.
In addition to the possibility of pregnancy, there is also the risk of transmitting diseases.
To determine the ovulation period, subtract two weeks from the expected date of your next menstrual period.
For instance, if your next period is expected on November 10, subtracting 14 days means that October 27 would be the ovulation day.
The five days before and after the ovulation day are considered fertile days.
However, this method is only applicable for those with regular menstrual cycles.
If your next period is irregular, it becomes impossible to estimate the ovulation day.
Using condoms can provide some level of protection, but it is not foolproof.
For example, if a condom is put on incorrectly and then reversed, it loses its protective function.
Reply Date: 2013/10/21
More Info
When it comes to sexual health, particularly regarding encounters with sex workers or any sexual partners, understanding the risks and implementing safe practices is crucial. In your case, you mentioned engaging in a sexual encounter that involved some level of intimacy but without penetration, and you expressed concerns about the safety of this interaction.
Firstly, regarding the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, it's important to note that the risk of transmission varies depending on the type of sexual activity. In your situation, since there was no penetration and you used a condom for any genital contact, the risk of HIV transmission is significantly reduced. HIV is primarily transmitted through direct contact with infected bodily fluids, such as blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk. The absence of penetration means that the likelihood of transmission is lower, especially if there were no visible cuts or sores on your genitals.
However, it’s essential to recognize that other STIs can still be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact or through bodily fluids. For example, herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis can be transmitted even without penetration. Therefore, while the risk of HIV is lower, it is not entirely absent, and other STIs could still pose a risk.
Regarding your menstrual cycle and ovulation, if your period is expected to start on October 10 and you had your encounter before that date, it is likely that you were not in your ovulation window. Ovulation typically occurs about 14 days before the start of your next period, which means that if your cycle is regular, you would have already ovulated. However, it’s important to remember that cycles can vary, and factors such as stress or hormonal changes can affect ovulation timing.
You mentioned that you were concerned about the safety of your encounter and that you had taken post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) within 30 hours of the encounter. PEP is a critical intervention for reducing the risk of HIV infection after potential exposure. It is most effective when taken as soon as possible after exposure, ideally within 72 hours. Following the completion of the PEP regimen, it is recommended to get tested for HIV at 4 to 6 weeks, 3 months, and 6 months after exposure to ensure that you are HIV-negative.
In terms of safe practices moving forward, here are some recommendations:
1. Use Condoms: Always use condoms for any sexual activity, including oral sex, to reduce the risk of STIs. Condoms are effective barriers against many infections.
2. Regular Testing: Get tested regularly for STIs, especially if you have multiple partners or engage in high-risk behaviors. This helps in early detection and treatment.
3. Communication: Discuss sexual health openly with partners, including their STI status and testing history.
4. Limit Partners: Reducing the number of sexual partners can lower your risk of exposure to STIs.
5. Vaccination: Consider vaccinations for preventable STIs, such as hepatitis B and HPV.
6. Follow-Up Care: After taking PEP, ensure you follow up with healthcare providers for testing and any further preventive measures.
In conclusion, while your encounter had some protective measures in place, it is essential to remain vigilant about sexual health. Regular testing, safe practices, and open communication with partners are key components of maintaining sexual health and reducing the risk of STIs. If you have any further concerns or symptoms, do not hesitate to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice and care.
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