Erectile Issues: When to Seek Help and Treatment Options - Urology

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Issues related to masturbation?


Dear Dr.
Hsu: When I watch adult films and masturbate, I can achieve an erection and ejaculate smoothly.
However, when I have intercourse with my girlfriend, sometimes I experience insufficient hardness or my erection goes soft when trying to penetrate.
Should I consider taking Viagra or Cialis, or is this primarily a psychological issue? Do I need to get checked at a hospital? I do smoke.
Thank you.

Zilai shui, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/03/12

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Tap Water: Hello, 1.
First, quit smoking, as smoking can significantly affect this issue.
2.
Engage in regular exercise to enhance cardiovascular strength.
3.
If sexual activity is still not progressing smoothly, undergo relevant examinations.
4.
Medication should be the last resort, as there are numerous side effects associated with these drugs.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Online responses should only serve as a reference; if necessary, it is essential to seek medical care at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, who cares about you.

Reply Date: 2014/03/12

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Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that many men face at some point in their lives. It can manifest in various ways, such as difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection during sexual intercourse, even when the individual can achieve an erection during masturbation or other sexual activities. Your experience of being able to achieve an erection while watching adult films but struggling during intercourse with your girlfriend suggests that there may be both psychological and physiological factors at play.


Understanding the Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Psychological Factors: Performance anxiety, stress, and relationship issues can significantly impact erectile function. If you feel anxious about sexual performance or have concerns about pleasing your partner, this can lead to difficulties in maintaining an erection. The mind plays a crucial role in sexual arousal, and any negative thoughts or pressures can hinder the process.

2. Physiological Factors: Conditions such as smoking, diabetes, hypertension, and cardiovascular diseases can contribute to ED. Smoking, in particular, affects blood flow and can damage blood vessels, leading to difficulties in achieving and maintaining an erection. If you have a history of smoking, it may be beneficial to consider quitting, as this could improve your overall vascular health and potentially alleviate some erectile issues.

3. Hormonal Factors: Low testosterone levels can also contribute to erectile dysfunction. If you suspect that hormonal imbalances might be an issue, a healthcare provider can perform tests to evaluate your hormone levels.


When to Seek Help
If you find that your erectile issues persist, it is advisable to seek help from a healthcare professional. Here are some indicators that it may be time to consult a doctor:
- Persistent Issues: If you experience erectile difficulties consistently over a period of time (e.g., several weeks or months), it is worth discussing with a healthcare provider.

- Impact on Relationships: If your erectile dysfunction is causing stress in your relationship or affecting your sexual satisfaction, seeking help can be beneficial.

- Underlying Health Concerns: If you have other health issues, such as diabetes or cardiovascular problems, it is essential to address these with your doctor, as they may be contributing to your erectile dysfunction.


Treatment Options
1. Lifestyle Changes: Making lifestyle modifications can have a significant impact on erectile function. This includes quitting smoking, reducing alcohol consumption, maintaining a healthy diet, and engaging in regular physical activity. These changes can improve blood flow and overall health, potentially alleviating erectile issues.

2. Psychological Counseling: If psychological factors are contributing to your erectile dysfunction, therapy or counseling can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address performance anxiety and improve sexual confidence.

3. Medications: Medications such as Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil) can be effective in treating erectile dysfunction. These medications work by increasing blood flow to the penis, helping to achieve and maintain an erection. However, it is essential to consult with a healthcare provider before starting any medication to ensure it is appropriate for your situation and to discuss any potential side effects or interactions with other medications you may be taking.

4. Medical Evaluation: A healthcare provider may perform a physical examination and order tests to rule out any underlying medical conditions contributing to your erectile dysfunction. This may include blood tests to check hormone levels, blood sugar levels, and cholesterol levels.


Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction can be a complex issue with both psychological and physiological components. It is essential to approach this matter with an open mind and seek professional help if needed. Lifestyle changes, psychological counseling, and medications can all play a role in improving erectile function. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and many men face similar challenges. Seeking help is a positive step toward understanding and addressing the issue effectively.

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