Itchy Symptoms After Oral Sex: When to See a Doctor - Urology

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Self-defense itchiness in the genital area?


My girlfriend has a bit of a cold, but she wants to perform oral sex on me.
I said no, but after she did, I felt a slight itch on my penis.
Could it be possible that her cold caused bacteria in her saliva that led to this, or is it just a psychological effect? Should I see a doctor?

cc, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/03/25

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Hello, the infection may be caused by bacteria in the oral cavity or viruses such as human papillomavirus (HPV).
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Online responses should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, who cares about your well-being.

Reply Date: 2014/03/25

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After engaging in oral sex, experiencing itchy or uncomfortable symptoms can understandably cause concern. In your case, the itchiness you are feeling after your girlfriend performed oral sex on you, especially considering she had a cold, raises some important points to consider.

Firstly, it is essential to understand that while colds are caused by viruses (primarily rhinoviruses), they are not typically associated with sexually transmitted infections (STIs). However, if your girlfriend had any other infections, such as herpes or another STI, there could be a risk of transmission through oral sex. The presence of a cold does not inherently mean that her saliva is carrying harmful bacteria or viruses that could cause an infection in you, but it is always wise to be cautious.

The itchiness you are experiencing could be due to several factors:
1. Irritation: Sometimes, the act of oral sex can cause physical irritation to the genital area, especially if there was vigorous activity or if there was any friction involved. This irritation can manifest as itchiness or discomfort.

2. Allergic Reaction: If your girlfriend used any flavored lubricants, dental dams, or other products during oral sex, you might be experiencing an allergic reaction to one of those substances.

3. Infection: While it may not be directly related to your girlfriend's cold, there is a possibility of developing a sexually transmitted infection (STI) if she had one. Symptoms of STIs can sometimes include itchiness, irritation, or unusual discharge.

4. Psychological Factors: Anxiety and worry about potential infections can lead to heightened awareness of bodily sensations, which might make you more sensitive to normal sensations that you might not have noticed otherwise.

Given these possibilities, here are some recommendations:
- Monitor Symptoms: If the itchiness persists or worsens, or if you develop additional symptoms such as unusual discharge, pain, or swelling, it would be wise to see a healthcare provider.
- Consult a Doctor: If you are concerned about the possibility of an STI or if the symptoms do not resolve, it is best to consult a healthcare professional. They can perform the necessary tests to rule out infections and provide appropriate treatment if needed.

- Practice Safe Sex: In the future, consider using protection during oral sex, such as condoms or dental dams, to reduce the risk of transmitting infections.

- Communicate with Your Partner: Discuss your concerns with your girlfriend, especially if she has symptoms of a cold or any other illness. Open communication can help both of you make informed decisions about sexual activity.

In conclusion, while the itchiness you are experiencing could be due to various benign reasons, it is essential to remain vigilant about your sexual health. If symptoms persist or you have any doubts, seeking medical advice is always a prudent choice. Remember, early detection and treatment of STIs can significantly improve outcomes and reduce the risk of complications.

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