Overcoming Fear: Seeking Help for Urological Concerns at 19 - Urology

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Afraid to see a urologist?


Hello doctor! I am 19 years old, 180 cm tall, and weigh 58 kg.
My penis is significantly smaller than others, and my voice hasn't changed.
I want to see a urologist to check if there are any hormonal issues or developmental problems.
Can the doctor determine this? However, I am hesitant to tell the doctor that I want to get tested, and I am also afraid to visit a urologist.
Would it be strange to go to a urologist?

Xiao Ren, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/07/10

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Xiao Ren: Hello, regarding urology, it's quite normal.
I believe you have some misconceptions about the diagnostic and treatment options in urology.
I suggest you look up the diagnostic and treatment options in urology online; I guarantee they will be completely different from your understanding.
To get back on track, the minimum tests you need to undergo include: ultrasound, endocrine/hormonal tests, and semen analysis.
If you have any further questions, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research together.
Online responses should only serve as a reference; if necessary, you should still seek medical care at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Head of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.

Reply Date: 2014/07/10

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It's completely understandable to feel anxious about your body and its development, especially at the age of 19 when many young adults are concerned about their physical appearance and health. First and foremost, it's important to recognize that you are not alone in feeling this way. Many individuals experience similar concerns during their teenage years and early adulthood, and seeking help is a positive step towards addressing those worries.

When it comes to your specific concerns about penile size and voice changes, these are common topics that many young men think about. The development of the male body can vary significantly from person to person, and there is a wide range of what is considered "normal." Factors such as genetics, hormonal levels, and overall health can all play a role in physical development.
If you are considering visiting a urologist, it is important to know that these specialists are trained to handle a variety of concerns related to male reproductive health, including developmental issues. It is not unusual for young men to seek advice regarding their development, and urologists are accustomed to discussing these topics. They can provide you with a professional assessment and help determine if there are any underlying hormonal or developmental issues that need to be addressed.

You mentioned feeling hesitant about discussing your concerns with a doctor. This is a common feeling, but it's essential to remember that healthcare professionals are there to help you, not to judge you. When you visit a urologist, you can express your concerns openly, and they will likely ask you questions to better understand your situation. You can also request specific tests if you feel that they are necessary, such as hormone level assessments.
If you're worried about how to approach the conversation, consider writing down your concerns beforehand. This can help you articulate your thoughts more clearly during the appointment. You might say something like, "I've been feeling anxious about my development, particularly regarding my size and voice changes, and I would like to know if there are any tests we can do to check for hormonal issues."
Additionally, it's worth noting that many young men experience similar concerns, and discussing these issues with a healthcare provider can provide reassurance and clarity. If you are uncomfortable with the idea of seeing a urologist, you might also consider starting with a general practitioner (GP) who can guide you through the process and refer you to a specialist if necessary.

In summary, seeking help for your concerns is a brave and commendable decision. Urologists are equipped to handle such inquiries, and they can provide you with the information and support you need. Remember, your health and well-being are paramount, and addressing your concerns with a professional can lead to greater peace of mind. Don't hesitate to take that step; it could be the beginning of a positive journey towards understanding your body better and alleviating your fears.

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