Insufficient penile rigidity?
Hello doctor, I am 173 cm tall and weigh 68 kg.
I usually have a habit of jogging, and although I am not overweight, I have a noticeable "beer belly," with most of my body fat concentrated there.
I have limited sexual experience, but when I was younger, I felt that my libido was strong and erections were normal.
However, I developed a bad habit of watching adult films and masturbating almost daily since high school, and this continues to this day.
Two years ago, after getting married, I noticed that my erections are no longer firm, and I have difficulty penetrating the vagina.
Even when I do achieve an erection, it quickly becomes soft again, and my libido seems to have decreased significantly.
I feel anxious about potential failure before each sexual encounter, which only worsens the situation and creates a significant psychological burden.
I consulted a urologist who suggested that my issues might be psychological due to my lack of experience.
I believe that my inability to maintain an erection prevents penetration, leading to a vicious cycle.
The doctor recommended that I take Viagra to help build my confidence.
I would like to ask why I am experiencing this situation despite not drinking alcohol, smoking, or having any other diseases.
Could it be due to insufficient sleep? I usually go to bed around midnight and wake up around 6 AM, but sometimes I feel drowsy at work.
Does this indicate a lack of sleep, or should I consider getting further tests? Thank you for your guidance.
Jieqi, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/08/03
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Jacky: Hello, it seems that it could be a psychological factor.
However, it is still necessary to conduct some relevant tests for confirmation, such as the penile tumescence test, erection test, and penile ultrasound.
This will help establish a diagnosis and facilitate medication use.
Using Viagra can indeed be very helpful for achieving an erection before engaging in sexual activity, particularly for psychogenic erectile dysfunction.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Answers from the internet should only be used as a reference; it is essential to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility if necessary.
This response is provided by Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Chief of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2014/08/03
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) in young men can be a complex issue, often stemming from a combination of psychological, lifestyle, and physiological factors. Your situation, as described, reflects a common concern among young men who experience difficulties with erections, especially when they have previously enjoyed normal sexual function.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction in Young Men
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety and stress are significant contributors to ED, particularly in younger men. The fear of failure during sexual encounters can create a vicious cycle where anxiety leads to performance issues, which in turn increases anxiety. This psychological barrier can be exacerbated by a lack of sexual experience, as you mentioned. The pressure to perform can lead to a decrease in sexual arousal and, consequently, erectile function.
2. Lifestyle Choices: Although you mentioned that you do not smoke or drink alcohol, other lifestyle factors can still play a role. For instance, poor diet, lack of exercise, and insufficient sleep can all contribute to ED. You noted that you have a "beer belly" and that your body fat is concentrated in the abdominal area. Excess body fat can lead to hormonal imbalances, including lower testosterone levels, which can affect libido and erectile function.
3. Physical Health: While you do not have any known diseases, it is essential to consider that underlying health issues can sometimes go unnoticed. Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, or hormonal imbalances can lead to ED. Regular check-ups and blood tests can help identify any potential health issues that may be contributing to your symptoms.
4. Sleep Quality: Sleep is crucial for overall health, including sexual health. You mentioned that you sleep around six hours a night and sometimes feel sleepy during the day, which could indicate that you are not getting enough restorative sleep. Sleep deprivation can lead to fatigue, decreased libido, and hormonal changes that may contribute to ED.
Solutions and Treatment Options
1. Psychological Counseling: Since your doctor suggested that psychological factors may be at play, it might be beneficial to consider therapy or counseling. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and build confidence in sexual situations. This approach can help break the cycle of fear and performance anxiety.
2. Lifestyle Modifications: Improving your overall health can have a positive impact on erectile function. Consider adopting a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. Regular exercise, such as running, can help reduce body fat, improve cardiovascular health, and boost testosterone levels. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity each week.
3. Sleep Hygiene: Prioritize good sleep habits to ensure you are getting enough restorative sleep. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night. Establish a regular sleep schedule, create a relaxing bedtime routine, and limit screen time before bed to improve sleep quality.
4. Medical Evaluation: If your symptoms persist despite lifestyle changes and psychological support, consider returning to your healthcare provider for further evaluation. Tests to check hormone levels, blood sugar, and cardiovascular health may provide additional insights into your condition.
5. Medication: As your doctor suggested, medications like Viagra (sildenafil) can help establish confidence in your sexual performance. While these medications can be effective, they should be used as part of a broader treatment plan that addresses the underlying causes of ED.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction in young men is often multifactorial, involving psychological, lifestyle, and physiological components. By addressing these factors through lifestyle changes, psychological support, and medical evaluation, you can improve your sexual health and overall well-being. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and seeking help is a positive step toward recovery.
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