Feeling stuffy~~~
Since high school, I have frequently masturbated, approximately once every one to two days.
Recently, I have noticed some issues: 1.
I feel that my erection quality is not sufficient; perhaps I have watched too much pornography, leading to decreased arousal.
2.
I used to be attracted to girls, but due to certain reasons, it didn't work out, and now I feel a lack of sexual desire.
I don't feel aroused when watching pornography, and I have no interest in it.
I also don't get an erection when thinking about women.
In the past, I would get an erection just from holding hands with a girl I liked.
I'm unsure if this is due to psychological pressure or physiological issues.
Additionally, I have been working for over two months as a newcomer, and I have not experienced morning erections.
Zui jin hen men, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/01/16
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Recently feeling down: Hello, 1.
Hardness needs to be evaluated through relevant examinations to determine.
2.
It is likely caused by pressure.
Both psychological and physiological factors could be involved.
Note: Not having an erection in the morning indicates that the bladder is not full upon waking.
This is unrelated to sexual function.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can further discuss and research.
Online responses should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, who cares about you.
Reply Date: 2015/01/16
More Info
Erectile issues can be a complex interplay of psychological and physiological factors, and your experience reflects a common concern among many individuals. Let's break down the potential causes and considerations surrounding erectile dysfunction (ED) based on your description.
Psychological Factors
1. Performance Anxiety: One of the most common psychological factors contributing to erectile dysfunction is performance anxiety. This occurs when an individual feels pressure to perform sexually, which can lead to stress and anxiety that inhibit arousal and erection. Your mention of feeling pressure due to past experiences with women and the fear of not being able to perform can create a cycle of anxiety that further exacerbates the issue.
2. Desensitization: You noted that you may be watching too much pornography, which can lead to desensitization. This means that the brain becomes accustomed to the high levels of stimulation provided by pornography, making it harder to achieve arousal in real-life situations. This phenomenon can diminish sexual excitement and lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection.
3. Emotional Factors: Your feelings of sexual disinterest and the lack of attraction towards women may stem from unresolved emotional issues or past experiences. If you have had negative experiences in romantic situations, it can lead to a lack of desire or interest in sexual activities. Emotional connections often play a crucial role in sexual arousal, and without them, it can be challenging to achieve an erection.
4. Stress and Lifestyle: Being a newcomer in a work environment can also contribute to stress, which can impact sexual performance. Stress can lead to hormonal changes that affect libido and erectile function. Additionally, lifestyle factors such as lack of exercise, poor diet, and inadequate sleep can also contribute to both psychological and physiological erectile issues.
Physiological Factors
1. Hormonal Imbalances: Testosterone levels play a significant role in sexual function. If you are experiencing low testosterone levels, it can lead to decreased libido and erectile dysfunction. It may be worth discussing this with a healthcare provider to evaluate your hormone levels.
2. Circulatory Issues: Erections are primarily a vascular event, meaning they depend on proper blood flow to the penis. Conditions that affect circulation, such as high blood pressure, diabetes, or cardiovascular disease, can lead to erectile dysfunction. If you have any underlying health issues, it’s essential to address them with a healthcare professional.
3. Neurological Factors: The nervous system is responsible for signaling the blood vessels to fill with blood during arousal. Any damage or dysfunction in the nervous system can lead to erectile issues. This can be due to various factors, including stress, anxiety, or even previous injuries.
Recommendations
1. Seek Professional Help: It’s crucial to consult a healthcare provider or a mental health professional who specializes in sexual health. They can help assess both the psychological and physiological aspects of your condition and provide tailored treatment options.
2. Limit Pornography Consumption: Reducing or eliminating pornography can help reset your sexual response and improve your ability to connect with real-life partners.
3. Focus on Emotional Connections: Building emotional intimacy with potential partners can enhance sexual arousal. Engaging in activities that foster connection and communication may help rekindle your interest in sexual experiences.
4. Manage Stress: Incorporating stress management techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, or physical exercise can improve overall well-being and potentially alleviate some of the psychological barriers to sexual performance.
5. Lifestyle Changes: Adopting a healthier lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep, can improve both physical health and sexual function.
In conclusion, erectile issues can arise from a combination of psychological and physiological factors. Understanding these factors and seeking appropriate help can lead to effective management and improvement of your sexual health.
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