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I found a woman and after applying hot massage oil on the glans, I performed oral sex with a condom while using warm water.
After that, I continued with manual stimulation until ejaculation, but I started to worry that if the massage oil was oil-based, it could cause the condom to break.
I'm concerned about whether there could be small holes or a loss of protective effectiveness.
This thought has made me very anxious.
Over a month later, I began to develop lesions on my chest and back, and the medications and ointments prescribed by the dermatologist haven't been effective.
So on the 63rd day, I went for a blood test, and the results for HIV and syphilis were both negative.
I'm unsure if this result is accurate enough.
Kongju, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/02/07
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Fear: It is recommended to repeat the HIV blood test after one year for more accurate results.
During this period, if you engage in sexual activity, it is best to use condoms.
If you have concerns, you can visit a urology clinic for relevant tests.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Online responses should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical care at a healthcare facility.
The Ministry of Health and Welfare Taitung Hospital cares about you.
Reply Date: 2015/02/07
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It's understandable to have concerns about sexual health, especially after engaging in activities that may seem risky. Let's break down your situation regarding condom safety, potential STI risks, and the accuracy of your testing results.
First, regarding the use of condoms with oil-based lubricants: it is true that oil-based products can compromise the integrity of latex condoms, leading to an increased risk of breakage. If you used a latex condom and applied a significant amount of oil, there is a possibility that the condom could have been damaged, which might expose you to sexually transmitted infections (STIs) if any were present. However, if the condom remained intact throughout the encounter, your risk of transmission would be significantly lower.
You mentioned that you performed oral sex with a condom and then engaged in masturbation with the condom still on. If the condom was intact and there were no visible signs of damage, the risk of STI transmission during these activities is relatively low. Oral sex does carry some risk for STIs, but the risk is generally lower compared to vaginal or anal intercourse, especially when using a condom.
Now, regarding your health concerns: you indicated that you developed skin issues on your chest and back after the encounter. While these symptoms can be concerning, they are not definitive indicators of HIV or other STIs. Skin conditions can arise from various causes, including allergies, infections, or other dermatological issues. If the topical treatments prescribed by your dermatologist have not been effective, it may be worth revisiting your healthcare provider for further evaluation.
You mentioned that you tested negative for HIV and syphilis on day 63 after the encounter. Generally, HIV tests are considered conclusive at 3 months post-exposure, although many tests can provide reliable results as early as 4-6 weeks. Since you tested negative at 63 days, it is a good sign, but for complete peace of mind, it is advisable to follow up with another test at the 3-month mark. This will ensure that you have the most accurate assessment of your HIV status.
In terms of STI testing, it is recommended to get tested for a range of STIs, especially if you have concerns about potential exposure. This includes testing for chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, and hepatitis, in addition to HIV and syphilis. Many healthcare providers recommend routine STI screenings for sexually active individuals, particularly if you have multiple partners or engage in high-risk behaviors.
In summary, while your risk of STI transmission appears to be low given the circumstances you described, it is always best to err on the side of caution. Continue to monitor your health, follow up with your healthcare provider regarding your skin issues, and consider retesting for STIs at the appropriate intervals. Practicing safe sex, including the proper use of condoms and regular STI screenings, is essential for maintaining sexual health and peace of mind. If you have any further questions or concerns, don't hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional.
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