Preventing STIs During Oral Sex: Essential Health Tips for Couples - Urology

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Disease prevention for oral sex without a condom?


Hello, Director.
I would like to ask if the only way to prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is for both partners to get tested at a clinic before engaging in sexual activity.
I have never had a sexual relationship with any girl and I want to safely enjoy sexual activity with my girlfriend (oral sex is a high possibility).
I am 22 years old but have never undergone a health check-up; I can only assess my health status based on my consistently safe lifestyle habits.

Chǔnán yī wèn, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/07/16

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Hello, asking a virgin is a good method, but some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) have incubation periods or window periods during which they may not be detectable.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Online responses should only serve as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
The Ministry of Health and Welfare Taitung Hospital cares about you.

Reply Date: 2015/07/16

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To effectively prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) during oral sex, it is essential to adopt a comprehensive approach that includes communication, hygiene practices, and regular health screenings. While it is true that one of the most effective ways to reduce the risk of STIs is for both partners to undergo testing before engaging in sexual activities, there are several other important considerations to keep in mind.

First and foremost, open communication with your partner about sexual health is crucial. Discussing your sexual history, any previous testing, and any concerns about STIs can help both partners feel more comfortable and informed. It is also important to establish mutual trust, which can enhance the overall sexual experience.

While you mentioned that you have not engaged in sexual relations with anyone else, it is still advisable for both you and your partner to get tested for STIs. Many STIs can be asymptomatic, meaning that individuals may not show any symptoms even if they are infected. Regular testing, especially before starting a new sexual relationship, is a proactive way to ensure both partners are healthy and to prevent the transmission of infections.

In terms of hygiene practices, maintaining good oral hygiene is beneficial. Brushing your teeth and using mouthwash before engaging in oral sex can help reduce the presence of bacteria in the mouth. However, it is important to note that brushing immediately before oral sex may cause micro-abrasions in the gums, which can increase the risk of infection. Therefore, it might be better to brush your teeth a little while before engaging in sexual activity to allow any potential abrasions to heal.

Using barriers such as flavored condoms or dental dams during oral sex can significantly reduce the risk of STI transmission. These barriers act as a protective layer, preventing direct contact with bodily fluids, which is a common route for STI transmission. If you and your partner are concerned about the risk of STIs, incorporating these barriers into your sexual practices can provide an additional layer of protection.

Moreover, it is essential to understand that certain STIs can be transmitted through oral sex, including herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis. While the risk of transmission is generally lower for oral sex compared to vaginal or anal sex, it is not negligible. Therefore, being aware of the signs and symptoms of STIs and monitoring for any unusual changes in your or your partner's health is important.

Regarding your health check-up, it is never too late to start prioritizing your sexual health. At 22 years old, it is advisable to have a comprehensive health screening that includes STI testing, especially if you plan to engage in sexual activities with your girlfriend. Regular health check-ups can help you stay informed about your health status and allow for early detection and treatment of any potential issues.

In conclusion, while the most effective way to prevent STIs during oral sex is for both partners to get tested, incorporating good hygiene practices, using barriers, and maintaining open communication are also essential components of a responsible sexual health strategy. By taking these steps, you can enjoy a safer and more fulfilling sexual experience with your partner. Always remember that prioritizing sexual health is an ongoing process, and staying informed and proactive is key to reducing risks.

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