Managing Uncovered Glans After First Sexual Experience: What to Do?

Exposed glans?

Hello doctor, I just had intercourse for the first time a few days ago, and the glans has been exposed for the first time in my 18 years of life, but I feel very uncomfortable.
Should I push it back or just leave it alone?

Xiao Wei, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/07/22

Dr. Fu Shizhang reply Urology

If it can be pushed back, do so; if it cannot, you need to go to the emergency room.

Reply Date: 2015/07/22

More Info

After your first sexual experience, it's completely normal to feel a bit uncomfortable or unsure about the changes happening to your body, especially if you are experiencing exposure of the glans (the head of the penis) for the first time. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to manage this situation.

Understanding the Anatomy
The glans is typically covered by the foreskin in uncircumcised males. During sexual activity, the foreskin may retract, exposing the glans. This exposure can be a new sensation, and it’s common to feel discomfort or sensitivity initially.

Should You Push It Back?
If you are uncircumcised and the glans is exposed, it is generally not necessary to push the foreskin back over the glans unless it feels uncomfortable or painful. The glans is designed to be exposed during sexual activity, and many men find that they adapt to this sensation over time. However, if you experience any pain, irritation, or unusual symptoms (like redness, swelling, or discharge), you should consult a healthcare professional.

Hygiene Practices
1. Gentle Cleaning: It’s essential to maintain good hygiene. Gently wash the area with warm water and mild soap. Avoid using harsh soaps or products that can irritate the sensitive skin of the glans.

2. Drying: After washing, ensure that the area is dried properly to prevent moisture buildup, which can lead to irritation or infections.

3. Moisturizing: If the glans feels dry or irritated, consider using a gentle, unscented moisturizer. This can help alleviate discomfort and promote healing.

Monitoring Symptoms
Keep an eye on any symptoms that may arise after your first sexual experience. If you notice:
- Persistent Pain: If the discomfort does not subside or worsens, it’s essential to seek medical advice.

- Redness or Swelling: These could be signs of irritation or infection.

- Discharge: Any unusual discharge should be evaluated by a healthcare provider.

Emotional and Psychological Considerations
It’s also important to address any emotional or psychological concerns you may have following your first sexual experience. Many individuals feel anxious or insecure about their performance or the physical changes they are experiencing. Remember that sexual experiences can vary greatly, and it’s normal to feel a range of emotions afterward. Open communication with your partner about your feelings can also help alleviate anxiety.

When to Seek Medical Attention
If you experience any of the following, it’s advisable to consult a healthcare professional:
- Severe pain or discomfort
- Signs of infection (redness, swelling, discharge)
- Persistent sensitivity or discomfort that does not improve
- Any concerns about sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

Conclusion
In summary, it’s normal to feel a bit uncomfortable after your first sexual experience, especially if it involves exposure of the glans for the first time. Focus on maintaining good hygiene, monitor any symptoms, and don’t hesitate to seek medical advice if you have concerns. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and being proactive about your health is crucial.

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