Concerns After Non-Penetrative Sex: Symptoms and Next Steps

Q: Concerns After Non-Penetrative Sex: Symptoms and Next Steps

The response is as follows： Since there was no actual penetration, the likelihood of pregnancy is very low. <br>Unless pregnancy occurred much earlier, it is unlikely to experience vomiting so soon. <br>Generally, a pregnancy test should be taken 15 days after sexual intercourse

During intercourse, there was no penetration, but the female partner has recently reported feeling discomfort?

We had intimate contact around noon on August 29, but there was no penetration, just friction.
However, the female partner has been feeling unwell these past few days and has experienced vomiting.
Her menstrual cycle is regular, with her last period starting on the 13th, but I've been very worried since it's still a long time until the next period.
I'm concerned about the possibility of an unexpected pregnancy.
I'm considering having her take a pregnancy test tomorrow, but I've heard that testing too early can lead to inaccurate results.
What should I do if the test turns out positive?

Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/09/03

Dr. Lü Lizheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

The response is as follows: Since there was no actual penetration, the likelihood of pregnancy is very low.
Unless pregnancy occurred much earlier, it is unlikely to experience vomiting so soon.
Generally, a pregnancy test should be taken 15 days after sexual intercourse for accurate results.
Sincerely, Dr.
Li-Cheng Lu, Taoyuan Hospital.

Reply Date: 2015/09/03

More Info

It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of anxiety and concern regarding the intimate encounter you had on August 29th, especially with the symptoms your partner is experiencing. Let's break down your concerns and provide some guidance on how to approach this situation.

Firstly, it's important to clarify that non-penetrative sex, such as rubbing or grinding, generally carries a lower risk of pregnancy compared to penetrative sex. However, there is still a possibility of pregnancy if semen comes into contact with the vaginal area. Since your partner's menstrual cycle is a factor, it's worth noting that ovulation typically occurs around the midpoint of the cycle, which can vary from person to person. If her last period started on the 13th, she may be approaching her next ovulation, depending on the length of her cycle.

Regarding the symptoms your partner is experiencing, such as nausea and discomfort, these could be related to various factors, including stress, anxiety, or even a gastrointestinal issue. It's not uncommon for individuals to feel physical symptoms in response to emotional stress or anxiety about potential pregnancy. However, if these symptoms persist or worsen, it would be wise for her to consult a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying medical issues.

As for the pregnancy test, it is true that testing too early can lead to inaccurate results. Most home pregnancy tests are designed to be accurate about a week after a missed period. Since her next expected period is on the 13th, it might be best to wait until then to take the test for the most reliable result. If she does take a test before her period is due, it’s advisable to use the first morning urine, as it contains the highest concentration of the hormone hCG, which is what pregnancy tests detect.

If the test does indicate a positive result, it’s important to approach the situation calmly. Discussing the next steps together is crucial. This could involve scheduling an appointment with a healthcare provider to confirm the pregnancy and discuss options moving forward. It’s essential to communicate openly and supportively with each other during this time, as both partners may have different feelings and concerns about the situation.

In the event that your partner is not pregnant, it might still be beneficial for both of you to have a conversation about your sexual health and contraception moving forward. If you both decide to engage in sexual activities again, consider discussing and implementing reliable contraceptive methods to alleviate future worries about unintended pregnancies.

Lastly, if either of you continues to feel anxious or overwhelmed by the situation, seeking support from a counselor or therapist can be beneficial. They can provide a safe space to express your feelings and help you develop coping strategies for managing anxiety related to sexual health and relationships.

In summary, while the situation may feel stressful, taking measured steps—waiting for the right time to test, consulting a healthcare professional if symptoms persist, and communicating openly with each other—can help you navigate this experience together.

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