Please, doctor?
Hello, I would like to consult a doctor.
My girlfriend and I had intercourse on the night of the 3rd, but we only went halfway and there was no ejaculation.
Normally, her menstrual period is expected to start around the 6th or 7th, but it hasn't arrived by the 9th, and we are both very worried about the possibility of pregnancy.
Could there be any reasons for the delay, or is it possible that she is really pregnant? Please provide me with a reassuring answer.
Thank you.
Xiao Han, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/10/09
Dr. Lü Lizheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Based on the timing of the sexual activity, it should not coincide with the ovulation period, so the likelihood of pregnancy is low.
If menstruation has not occurred, it is likely just a case of irregular menstruation.
To confirm whether pregnancy has occurred, it is advisable to take a pregnancy test for more certainty.
Sincerely, Dr.
Li-Cheng Lu, Taoyuan Hospital.
Reply Date: 2015/10/09
More Info
When it comes to understanding delayed periods and the possibility of pregnancy, it's essential to consider several factors that can influence menstrual cycles. In your case, you mentioned that you and your girlfriend had sexual intercourse on the evening of the 3rd, and her expected period was around the 6th or 7th, but it has not arrived by the 9th. This situation understandably raises concerns about potential pregnancy.
Firstly, it's important to clarify that pregnancy typically occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg during ovulation. If your girlfriend's menstrual cycle is regular, ovulation usually occurs about 14 days before her next period is due. In this case, if her cycle is around 28 days, ovulation would likely have occurred around the 20th to 21st of the previous month. Since you mentioned that there was no ejaculation during intercourse, the likelihood of pregnancy is significantly reduced. However, it is worth noting that pre-ejaculate fluid can contain sperm, albeit in smaller quantities, which could theoretically lead to pregnancy, although this is less common.
Now, regarding the delay in her period, several factors could contribute to this situation:
1. Stress and Anxiety: Emotional stress, anxiety, or significant life changes can impact hormonal balance, leading to delayed ovulation and, consequently, a delayed period. Given that both of you are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, this anxiety could be a contributing factor.
2. Hormonal Fluctuations: Hormonal imbalances can occur for various reasons, including changes in weight, exercise habits, or underlying health conditions. If your girlfriend has experienced any recent changes in her lifestyle or health, this could affect her menstrual cycle.
3. Illness or Health Issues: Sometimes, minor illnesses or health issues can lead to a delay in menstruation. If she has been unwell or under significant physical stress, this could also be a factor.
4. Pregnancy Testing: If her period does not arrive soon, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are generally reliable and can detect pregnancy as early as the first day of a missed period. If the test is negative and her period still does not come, it may be worth consulting a healthcare provider for further evaluation.
In conclusion, while the possibility of pregnancy cannot be entirely ruled out, the circumstances you described suggest that it is unlikely, especially given the lack of ejaculation. However, the delay in her period could be attributed to stress, hormonal changes, or other factors. Encouraging her to take a pregnancy test if her period does not arrive soon would provide clarity. Additionally, if her cycles are typically regular and this delay is unusual for her, it may be beneficial for her to consult with a healthcare professional to explore any underlying issues.
It's essential to approach this situation with patience and understanding, as menstrual irregularities are common and can often resolve on their own.
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