Sore throat, swelling in the throat, groin swelling, and facial rash?
The incident occurred from Friday night to Saturday morning! I had a full-body check-up last Tuesday, and right after that, I went to have my wisdom teeth removed.
On Friday night, I got a bit too carried away drinking at a nightclub and ended up having a very intense French kiss with a guy for a long time! I also attempted to perform oral sex on him for about ten seconds, and he reciprocated for roughly the same duration.
My mindset was that I was feeling adventurous after drinking, even though I knew he was gay.
At that moment, I was a bit tipsy and thought it would be fun.
However, he asked me if I would still want to be friends with him if he had HIV.
I was taken aback when I heard that.
Regardless of whether he actually has it or not, I am very worried about the possibility of contracting HIV.
After I performed oral sex, I stood up and accidentally bit his lip, causing it to bleed.
After that, we stopped kissing because he said he didn't want to infect me!
Then on Saturday, I slept all day at home.
On Sunday night, I noticed many small red spots on my face, which felt rough to the touch.
However, I usually get these symptoms during seasonal changes due to dryness.
I also started to feel a sore throat and swelling, and there was some pain in both sides of my groin! Additionally, I began to experience pain in my lower abdomen.
I'm really worried that I might have contracted HIV due to the wisdom tooth extraction and possibly having mild periodontal disease, as I read that these symptoms could be early signs of HIV infection.
I'm very anxious!
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/11/23
Dr. Gao Qingyun reply Family Medicine
Hello: Currently, your symptoms may be due to a common bacterial or viral infection, and a physical examination is necessary to determine the cause.
Considering that there is a latency period for infections caused by immunodeficiency viruses, the symptoms you are experiencing are unlikely to be a result of recent HIV infection.
However, it is still advisable for you to promptly visit an infectious disease clinic to discuss the indications for prophylactic medication with a specialist.
Thank you! Wishing you safety and good health.
Director of Family Medicine Department, Taoyuan Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, Gao Qingyun.
Reply Date: 2015/11/23
More Info
Based on your description, it seems you are experiencing a range of symptoms that are understandably causing you significant concern. Let's break down your situation and address your worries systematically.
Firstly, it’s important to clarify that the symptoms you are experiencing—sore throat, swelling, rash, and discomfort in the groin area—can be attributed to a variety of causes, and not all of them are related to HIV or sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
1. Sore Throat and Swelling: These symptoms can arise from several factors, including viral infections (like the common cold or flu), bacterial infections (such as strep throat), or even irritation from alcohol consumption and smoking. Given that you mentioned a night of heavy drinking, it’s possible that your throat is irritated from the alcohol or from the physical activity of kissing.
2. Rash: The appearance of a rash, especially if it feels rough to the touch, could be due to an allergic reaction, irritation from alcohol, or even a viral exanthem. Seasonal changes can also exacerbate skin conditions, leading to rashes that might feel more pronounced during times of stress or lack of sleep.
3. Groin Pain: Discomfort in the groin area can be caused by a variety of issues, including lymphadenopathy (swollen lymph nodes), which can occur due to infections. This is not uncommon after engaging in sexual activity, especially if there is a concern about STIs.
4. Concerns about HIV: Your anxiety about potential HIV exposure is valid, especially given the circumstances you described. However, it’s crucial to note that the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is significantly lower than through anal or vaginal intercourse. The fact that you experienced bleeding from your mouth could increase the risk slightly, but it’s still considered low risk compared to other forms of sexual contact.
5. Next Steps: Given your symptoms and concerns, it would be wise to seek medical attention. A healthcare provider can perform the necessary tests to rule out STIs, including HIV, and assess your throat and rash. They can also provide guidance on how to manage your symptoms and any necessary treatments.
6. Testing for HIV: If you are concerned about HIV, it is recommended to get tested. Many clinics offer rapid testing, and it’s advisable to wait at least 2-4 weeks after potential exposure for accurate results, as this is the window period for many tests.
7. Mental Health Consideration: It’s also important to address the emotional toll that these worries can take on you. Anxiety about health can lead to increased stress and exacerbate physical symptoms. Consider talking to a mental health professional if you find that your anxiety is overwhelming.
In summary, while your symptoms are concerning, they do not necessarily indicate an HIV infection. However, the best course of action is to consult a healthcare professional who can provide a thorough evaluation and appropriate testing. Remember, early intervention is key in managing both physical and mental health concerns. Take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to reach out for help.
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