Coping with Emotional Turmoil: When Talking No Longer Helps - Psychiatry

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Experiencing significant mood swings and being easily prone to crying?


In the past, when I felt irritable or unhappy, talking to friends would help me feel better.
However, recently, no matter who I talk to, my mood just doesn't improve.
I find myself crying almost every day, and my family doesn't listen to my work-related frustrations.
My mom just says that I will encounter similar issues when I enter the workforce, and that at my age, I shouldn't just cry when faced with challenges.
Although I feel a bit better temporarily after sharing my feelings with friends, it doesn't take long before I start thinking about those unpleasant things again.
What should I do? I've been in this state for over a week now.
I don't feel like going to class or doing anything; I just feel overwhelmed...

Qiu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/12/20

Dr. Zhong Mingxun reply Psychiatry


Ms.
Chiu: Thank you for your letter! Your recent condition seems to be quite different from your usual state.
The issues you are currently facing cannot simply be resolved by talking to friends.
Although your mother's response may not necessarily be wrong, it is clear that she cannot fully understand your feelings.
If you have reached a point where you do not want to attend classes, do not want to work, and feel overwhelmed, I encourage you to consider seeking a professional evaluation.
You might want to think about visiting a mental health clinic or a counseling center to receive more comprehensive support.

Reply Date: 2015/12/20

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It sounds like you are experiencing a significant emotional struggle, and I want to acknowledge how difficult this can be. When talking to friends or family no longer provides the relief it once did, it can feel isolating and overwhelming. This situation is not uncommon, especially when dealing with persistent feelings of sadness, frustration, or anxiety.

First, it's important to recognize that emotional turmoil can manifest in various ways, including crying, irritability, and a lack of motivation. These symptoms can be indicative of underlying issues such as depression or anxiety disorders. When you mention that you feel like you are crying almost every day and that your emotional state is affecting your desire to attend classes or engage in activities, it suggests that you may be experiencing a more profound emotional disturbance that could benefit from professional support.

Here are some steps you can consider to help cope with your current emotional state:
1. Seek Professional Help: If you haven't already, consider reaching out to a mental health professional. A therapist or counselor can provide a safe space for you to explore your feelings and develop coping strategies. They can also help you understand the root causes of your emotional distress and work with you to find effective solutions.

2. Practice Self-Care: Engage in activities that promote your well-being. This can include physical exercise, which is known to release endorphins and improve mood, as well as mindfulness practices such as meditation or yoga. Taking care of your physical health can have a positive impact on your mental state.

3. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions. It allows you to express what you are going through and can help you identify patterns in your thoughts that may be contributing to your distress.

4. Limit Exposure to Stressors: If certain situations or people trigger negative emotions, it may be helpful to limit your exposure to them, at least temporarily. This can give you the space you need to heal and regain your emotional balance.

5. Connect with Supportive People: While it may feel like your family is not understanding, try to identify friends or support groups where you feel safe sharing your feelings. Sometimes, talking to someone who has gone through similar experiences can provide comfort and validation.

6. Set Small Goals: When you feel overwhelmed, it can be helpful to break tasks into smaller, manageable goals. This can help you regain a sense of control and accomplishment, even in small ways.

7. Explore New Coping Mechanisms: If talking is no longer helping, consider other forms of expression, such as art, music, or physical activities. These can serve as outlets for your emotions and may provide relief.

8. Educate Yourself: Understanding more about mental health can empower you. Learning about emotional regulation, coping strategies, and the nature of mental health disorders can help you feel more in control of your situation.

9. Be Patient with Yourself: Healing takes time, and it's important to be gentle with yourself during this process. Acknowledge your feelings without judgment and understand that it's okay to seek help.

In summary, when talking no longer helps, it may be time to explore other avenues of support and coping strategies. Professional help can be particularly beneficial in navigating these feelings and developing a personalized plan for recovery. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are resources available to help you through this challenging time.

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