Can I get pregnant?
Hello, Doctor: I apologize for bothering you, but I would like to ask about my menstrual cycle.
My period started on the 16th and ended on the 23rd.
On the night of the 25th, my boyfriend used a condom for the first time, but he wasn't very experienced.
He used it correctly, but it seemed to slide a bit forward afterward.
I was worried about the possibility of pregnancy, so we removed it and replaced it with a new one.
When we were taking it off, I noticed some slight stickiness, and I'm not sure if it was from him or if it was my own.
My boyfriend wiped his hands with tissue before using the new condom (I don't have experience with this, so it seems he could only insert the tip).
Later, he ejaculated externally (with the condom on), but I'm unsure if any semen leaked out.
What is the likelihood of pregnancy in this situation? I'm very concerned and would appreciate your help, Dr.
Lin.
Thank you!
Xiao Jie, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/12/27
Dr. Lin Manying reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
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The likelihood is low, but if your period is delayed by a week, it is recommended to take a pregnancy test.
Reply Date: 2015/12/27
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When it comes to understanding the risks of pregnancy, especially in the context of contraceptive use, it's essential to consider several factors that can influence the likelihood of conception. Based on your description, it seems you are concerned about the effectiveness of condom use and the potential for pregnancy after a recent sexual encounter.
Firstly, let's break down the situation. You mentioned that your menstrual cycle started on the 16th and ended on the 23rd, and you had sexual intercourse on the 25th. This timing is crucial because it falls just after your menstrual period. Generally, the likelihood of becoming pregnant is lower immediately after menstruation, but it is not impossible, especially if you have a shorter cycle or if you ovulate early.
You also indicated that your boyfriend used a condom but had some issues with it sliding. Condoms are a reliable form of contraception when used correctly, but any slippage or breakage can increase the risk of pregnancy. It's important to ensure that condoms are put on properly and that they fit well to prevent any accidents. If there was any leakage or if the condom was not used correctly, there could be a risk of sperm entering the vagina, which could lead to pregnancy.
The fact that you mentioned some "sticky" discharge could be concerning. If this discharge was indeed semen, it could increase the risk of pregnancy, especially if it came into contact with the vaginal area. However, if the condom was intact and used properly, the risk remains relatively low.
You also mentioned that your boyfriend withdrew before ejaculation (pulling out), which is a common method of contraception, but it is not foolproof. Pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) can contain sperm, and if there was any contact with the vaginal area, there is a possibility of pregnancy.
Given these factors, while the risk of pregnancy exists, it may not be as high as you fear, especially if the condom was used correctly and there was no direct ejaculation inside the vagina. However, if you are still concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, there are a few steps you can take:
1. Emergency Contraception: If you are within 72 hours of the sexual encounter and are worried about the risk of pregnancy, you may consider taking emergency contraception (like Plan B). This can significantly reduce the chances of pregnancy if taken promptly.
2. Pregnancy Testing: If your next period is late, consider taking a home pregnancy test. These tests are quite accurate and can provide peace of mind.
3. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If you have ongoing concerns about contraceptive methods or pregnancy risks, it may be beneficial to speak with a healthcare provider. They can provide personalized advice based on your health history and needs.
In conclusion, while there is a possibility of pregnancy given the circumstances you described, the risk may not be as high as you think, especially if precautions were taken. However, being proactive about your reproductive health is always a good approach. If you have further questions or concerns, don't hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional for guidance.
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