Ejaculation Issues: Why It Feels Difficult to Release - Urology

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Inability to ejaculate despite feeling the urge to do so?


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Is the feeling of a full and watery ejaculation during masturbation related to holding back at the moment of ejaculation, especially after a period of abstinence?

Mr. Wang, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/01/03

Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology


First, observe the situation.
If it persists, go to the hospital for a semen analysis.

Reply Date: 2016/01/03

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Ejaculation issues can be complex and multifaceted, often involving both physiological and psychological factors. The sensation of difficulty in releasing during ejaculation can be influenced by several factors, including physical arousal, psychological state, and even the techniques used during masturbation.

When you mention that the sensation of "feeling full" or "pressure" during masturbation is related to holding back or abstaining for a period, this is indeed a common experience. Sexual arousal leads to increased blood flow to the genital area, which can create a feeling of fullness or tension. If you have been abstaining from ejaculation for a while, this sensation can become more pronounced due to the accumulation of seminal fluid and heightened sensitivity.

1. Physiological Factors: The body builds up semen over time, and during periods of abstinence, the pressure can increase, leading to a more intense sensation when you finally do attempt to ejaculate. This can sometimes create a feeling of difficulty in releasing, as the body may be in a heightened state of arousal, and the muscles involved in ejaculation (such as the pelvic floor muscles) may contract more forcefully. This can lead to a sensation of tightness or difficulty in achieving release.

2. Psychological Factors: Anxiety or stress can significantly impact sexual performance and ejaculation. If you are feeling anxious about the act of ejaculation itself, this can create a mental block that makes it feel more difficult to release. The mind and body are closely connected; if your mind is preoccupied or anxious, it can affect your physical response.

3. Technique and Stimulation: The way you stimulate yourself during masturbation can also play a role. If you are using a technique that involves holding back or applying pressure, this can create a paradoxical effect where the body feels both aroused and tense, making it harder to reach climax. Experimenting with different techniques, such as varying the speed, pressure, or type of stimulation, may help alleviate this sensation.

4. Health Considerations: It’s also important to consider any underlying health issues that may affect sexual function. Conditions such as pelvic floor dysfunction, hormonal imbalances, or even certain medications can impact ejaculation. If you find that this issue persists or is accompanied by pain or other concerning symptoms, it may be worth consulting a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation.

5. Communication and Relaxation: If you are in a sexual relationship, open communication with your partner about your experiences and feelings can also help alleviate anxiety and improve sexual experiences. Additionally, practicing relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, can help reduce anxiety and improve overall sexual function.

In summary, the difficulty in releasing during ejaculation can be attributed to a combination of physiological sensations, psychological factors, and techniques used during masturbation. Understanding these elements can help you navigate your experiences more effectively. If concerns persist, seeking advice from a healthcare provider specializing in sexual health can provide further insights and support.

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