Having no sensation during intercourse?
Since I was young, I've been using a vacuum-style DIY method, and as a result, I find it uncomfortable during intercourse with others, particularly with my glans.
It seems that the pleasurable sensations I experienced from my DIY method are localized around the middle of the penis.
While I can maintain an erection during oral sex, using a condom during penetration seems to diminish the sensation significantly.
Nianqingren, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/01/12
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Young person: Hello, you can communicate with the female partner and stimulate your sensitive areas.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Answers from the internet should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, who cares about your well-being.
Reply Date: 2016/01/12
More Info
Understanding sensation loss during intercourse can be a complex issue that involves various physiological, psychological, and anatomical factors. From a urology perspective, it is essential to consider how individual experiences and practices can influence sexual pleasure and sensation.
Firstly, it is important to recognize that sexual sensation is not solely dependent on physical stimulation. The brain plays a crucial role in processing sensations and generating feelings of pleasure. If a person has conditioned their body to respond to specific types of stimulation—such as the DIY methods you mentioned—this may lead to a decreased response to other forms of stimulation, such as penetrative intercourse with a condom. This phenomenon is sometimes referred to as "sensory adaptation," where the body becomes accustomed to certain stimuli and may not respond as strongly to different ones.
Additionally, the use of condoms can also affect sensation. Condoms are designed to provide a barrier for protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unintended pregnancies, but they can also reduce the tactile sensation experienced during intercourse. Some individuals report that condoms diminish their pleasure, which can be attributed to the thickness of the material and the way it alters the direct contact between partners. If you find that using a condom significantly reduces your pleasure, you might consider experimenting with different types of condoms. There are ultra-thin options available that are designed to enhance sensitivity while still providing protection.
Another factor to consider is the psychological aspect of sexual experiences. Anxiety, stress, or performance pressure can significantly impact sexual arousal and pleasure. If you are feeling anxious about your performance or the sensations you are experiencing, this can create a feedback loop that further diminishes your enjoyment. It may be beneficial to explore relaxation techniques or open communication with your partner about your experiences and preferences to enhance intimacy and comfort during sexual activities.
Furthermore, anatomical variations can also play a role in sensation. The distribution of nerve endings in the penis can vary from person to person, and certain areas may be more sensitive than others. If your DIY methods have focused on specific areas, it may be worthwhile to explore different techniques that stimulate various parts of the penis and surrounding areas to discover what feels best for you.
If sensation loss during intercourse continues to be a concern, it may be helpful to consult with a urologist or a sexual health specialist. They can provide a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying medical conditions that may be contributing to your experience, such as hormonal imbalances, nerve damage, or vascular issues. Additionally, they can offer guidance on sexual health practices and recommend therapies or treatments that may enhance your sexual experience.
In summary, sensation loss during intercourse can be influenced by a combination of physical, psychological, and anatomical factors. Exploring different types of stimulation, addressing any psychological barriers, and consulting with a healthcare professional can help you better understand and improve your sexual experiences. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and seeking help is a positive step towards enhancing your intimate life.
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