Emotional issues and sensory issues?
Hearing certain sounds at home can make me feel irritable, and sometimes I have the urge to smash things (though I manage to hold back at school).
Occasionally, I suddenly feel overwhelmed with irritation and anger, even though I usually don’t experience much stress.
I’m seeking to understand why this happens and how I can alleviate these emotions.
Thank you.
I often feel indifferent about everything I do and frequently find it hard to feel happy.
For a while, I was subjected to verbal bullying by classmates, which led me to feel that it didn’t matter since nothing would change.
Even when they continued to bully me verbally, I just kept enduring it.
Is this a normal reaction?
Yagami, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/01/16
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello Yagami; it is possible that your recent mental tension is causing you to feel irritated by sounds.
If there are no external pressures, it may indicate that your emotions are in a more depressive state, leading to a decreased tolerance.
Engaging in relaxation practices or activities you enjoy (such as exercising, reading, listening to music, or watching movies) can potentially improve your emotional state.
Not taking your colleagues' unreasonable treatment to heart is also one way to cope.
Reply Date: 2016/01/16
More Info
Emotional distress and sensory overload are significant issues that can affect mental health, and your experiences reflect a complex interplay of emotions and reactions to external stimuli. It’s essential to understand that feeling overwhelmed by sounds or situations, experiencing sudden anger, and feeling emotionally numb or indifferent can be symptoms of underlying mental health challenges.
From what you've described, it seems that you are experiencing heightened sensitivity to your environment, which can lead to irritability and frustration. This sensitivity can be exacerbated by stressors, such as bullying, which you mentioned experiencing in school. Bullying can have profound effects on an individual's self-esteem and emotional well-being, leading to feelings of helplessness and a diminished sense of self-worth. When subjected to such negative experiences, it is not uncommon to develop a defensive emotional response, where you might feel detached or indifferent as a coping mechanism. This emotional numbness can serve as a protective barrier against the pain of bullying, but it can also prevent you from fully engaging with positive experiences.
Your feelings of wanting to express anger physically, such as the urge to throw something, indicate that you may be struggling to manage your emotions effectively. This is a common reaction when individuals feel overwhelmed or unable to express their feelings verbally. It’s crucial to find healthier outlets for these emotions. Engaging in physical activities, such as exercise, can be beneficial. Exercise releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce feelings of stress and anxiety. Additionally, practicing mindfulness or relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga, can help you regain a sense of control over your emotions and reduce feelings of irritability.
Regarding your feelings of indifference, it’s important to recognize that this can be a sign of depression or anxiety. When individuals feel that "nothing matters," it can be a symptom of emotional exhaustion or a response to chronic stress. It’s essential to address these feelings rather than dismiss them as normal. Seeking support from a mental health professional can provide you with the tools and strategies to cope with these emotions effectively. Therapy can help you process your experiences, develop coping mechanisms, and improve your emotional regulation.
In terms of your question about whether your reactions are normal, it’s essential to understand that everyone responds to stress and trauma differently. However, if your feelings of anger, irritability, and emotional numbness persist or worsen, it may indicate that you need additional support. It’s not uncommon for individuals who have experienced bullying or other forms of emotional distress to feel isolated or misunderstood, but reaching out for help is a crucial step toward healing.
If you feel comfortable, consider talking to a trusted friend, family member, or school counselor about your experiences. They can provide support and help you navigate your feelings. Additionally, if you decide to seek professional help, many mental health services are available, including counseling and therapy, which can be tailored to your needs.
In summary, your experiences of emotional distress and sensory overload are valid and deserve attention. It’s essential to explore these feelings further, seek support, and develop coping strategies to manage your emotions effectively. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are resources available to help you navigate these challenges.
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