Sexual dysfunction
In the past, my sexual experiences were normal.
However, for the past three months, I have been experiencing difficulties during sexual intercourse.
During foreplay, I often lose my erection and cannot penetrate (I also feel a tingling sensation in my head).
1) I wonder if this could be due to past experiences with my ex-girlfriend, who was often dissatisfied, leading me to self-train excessively.
Could it be that I have over-ejaculated, causing injury to other areas, resulting in loss of erection due to physical reflexes triggered by sexual desire? I have noticed that when I masturbate for almost an hour, it becomes difficult to ejaculate, and I feel exhausted, which makes it easier for me to lose my erection without ejaculation.
2) Alternatively, could this be related to psychological issues stemming from my previous girlfriend's dissatisfaction? I have been unable to enjoy intimacy for three months now, and I am worried about my ability to have children.
I would appreciate your guidance, doctor.
Fanrao, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/01/24
Dr. Liu Jiaju reply Urology
Your issue is erectile dysfunction.
It is recommended that you visit a urology clinic for a detailed examination to determine the underlying cause and receive appropriate treatment.
This will likely help alleviate your anxiety and symptoms.
Reply Date: 2016/01/24
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that can affect men of all ages, but it is particularly prevalent among older adults. Understanding the causes, effects, and potential solutions for ED is crucial for addressing this condition effectively.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Physical Causes:
- Vascular Issues: Conditions such as atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) can restrict blood flow to the penis, making it difficult to achieve or maintain an erection.
- Neurological Disorders: Diseases such as multiple sclerosis or Parkinson's disease can affect nerve signals from the brain to the penis.
- Hormonal Imbalances: Low testosterone levels can lead to reduced libido and erectile difficulties.
- Chronic Conditions: Diabetes, hypertension, and obesity can contribute to ED by affecting blood flow and nerve function.
2. Psychological Causes:
- Anxiety and Stress: Performance anxiety, especially if there have been previous difficulties, can create a cycle of anxiety that exacerbates ED.
- Depression: Mental health issues can significantly impact sexual desire and function.
- Relationship Issues: Problems with a partner can lead to emotional distress, which can manifest as ED.
3. Lifestyle Factors:
- Substance Abuse: Alcohol and recreational drugs can impair sexual function.
- Sedentary Lifestyle: Lack of physical activity can contribute to obesity and cardiovascular issues, which are risk factors for ED.
- Poor Diet: A diet high in saturated fats and low in fruits and vegetables can lead to vascular problems.
Effects of Erectile Dysfunction
ED can have a profound impact on a man's quality of life. It can lead to:
- Emotional Distress: Feelings of inadequacy, embarrassment, and anxiety can arise from the inability to perform sexually.
- Relationship Strain: ED can create tension between partners, leading to decreased intimacy and communication issues.
- Impact on Self-Esteem: Many men associate sexual performance with masculinity, and ED can lead to a decline in self-worth.
Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction
1. Medical Evaluation: It is essential to consult a healthcare provider to determine the underlying cause of ED. This may involve blood tests, physical examinations, and discussions about medical history.
2. Lifestyle Changes:
- Exercise Regularly: Physical activity can improve blood flow and reduce stress.
- Healthy Diet: A balanced diet can improve overall health and reduce the risk of conditions that contribute to ED.
- Limit Alcohol and Quit Smoking: Reducing alcohol intake and quitting smoking can improve erectile function.
3. Psychological Counseling: If psychological factors are contributing to ED, therapy can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and relationship issues.
4. Medications: There are several medications available that can help improve erectile function by increasing blood flow to the penis. Common options include sildenafil (Viagra), tadalafil (Cialis), and vardenafil (Levitra).
5. Other Treatments:
- Vacuum Erection Devices: These devices create a vacuum around the penis, drawing blood into it and causing an erection.
- Penile Injections: Medications can be injected directly into the penis to induce an erection.
- Surgery: In severe cases, surgical options may be considered, such as penile implants.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction can be a complex issue with various contributing factors. It’s important to approach this condition holistically, considering both physical and psychological aspects. If you have been experiencing ED, especially in the context of past relationship issues or performance anxiety, it is advisable to seek professional help. A healthcare provider can guide you through the evaluation process and recommend appropriate treatments tailored to your specific situation. Remember, you are not alone, and effective solutions are available.
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