How to Seek Help for a Mentally Ill Parent: A Guide to Treatment Options

Maternal mental illness

My mother has a mental illness and saw a doctor a long time ago, but she no longer takes her medication.
Throughout my childhood, my brother and I have been subjected to her violence, and she uses her mental illness as an excuse, showing no remorse.
She has even attempted to stab me with a knife and has choked me while I was sleeping.
These actions could certainly be considered attempted murder.
As she has aged, she has also been screaming loudly at home, behaving like a monster.
Recently, she has even physically assaulted my father, which is utterly unacceptable.
I would like to ask the doctor how to proceed if I want to have her committed to a psychiatric hospital.
Would this be considered a severe mental illness? Are there specific criteria that must be met for admission to a psychiatric facility? I am not very knowledgeable about this area, so I would appreciate your guidance.
Thank you.

Ren Yao Dongde Gan'en, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/02/16

Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry

Hello, if diagnosed with a severe mental illness and exhibiting self-harm or violent behavior due to the condition, it may meet the criteria for involuntary treatment and hospitalization.
If you have difficulty bringing your mother to seek medical care, it is advisable to first contact the local health department for assistance.

Reply Date: 2016/02/16

More Info

Dealing with a mentally ill parent, especially one exhibiting violent behavior, can be incredibly challenging and distressing. It’s crucial to approach this situation with care, both for your safety and for the well-being of your family. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to seek help for a mentally ill parent, particularly in the context of severe mental illness and potential violence.

Understanding the Situation
First, it’s important to recognize that your mother’s behavior—such as violence, threats, and erratic actions—indicates a serious mental health issue. While mental illness can manifest in various ways, violent behavior is often a sign that the individual is in crisis and may require immediate intervention. It’s also essential to understand that mental illness does not excuse abusive behavior; seeking help is necessary for both the individual and the family.

Steps to Seek Help
1. Document the Behavior: Keep a detailed record of incidents involving your mother’s violent behavior. Note the dates, times, and specifics of what occurred. This documentation can be crucial when seeking help from authorities or medical professionals.

2. Reach Out to Mental Health Professionals: Contact local mental health services or a psychiatrist to discuss your concerns. They can provide guidance on how to approach the situation and may recommend an assessment for your mother. If she has a history of mental illness, this information will be valuable.

3. Involve Law Enforcement if Necessary: If your mother poses an immediate threat to herself or others, do not hesitate to call the police. They can intervene and ensure safety. In some cases, law enforcement can facilitate a mental health evaluation, especially if there is a risk of harm.

4. Consider Involuntary Commitment: In many jurisdictions, there are laws allowing for involuntary commitment to a psychiatric facility if a person is deemed a danger to themselves or others. This usually requires a mental health professional to evaluate the individual and provide documentation supporting the need for commitment. The criteria for involuntary commitment can vary by state, but generally include:
- The individual poses a significant risk of harm to themselves or others.

- The individual is unable to care for themselves due to their mental illness.

- The individual is experiencing a severe mental health crisis.

5. Contact Social Services: If your mother is unable or unwilling to seek help, contacting social services can provide additional resources. They can assist in finding appropriate care options and may help facilitate the process of getting your mother evaluated.

6. Explore Treatment Options: If your mother is admitted to a psychiatric facility, she may undergo a comprehensive evaluation and receive treatment, which could include medication, therapy, and support services. It’s essential to stay involved in her treatment process, advocating for her needs while also prioritizing your safety.

7. Seek Support for Yourself: Caring for a mentally ill parent can take a toll on your mental health. Consider seeking support from a therapist or support group for families dealing with mental illness. This can provide you with coping strategies and a safe space to express your feelings.

Conclusion
Navigating the complexities of mental illness in a family member, especially one who exhibits violent behavior, is a daunting task. It’s essential to prioritize safety and seek professional help. Remember, you are not alone in this situation, and there are resources available to assist you and your family. Taking proactive steps can lead to a safer environment and potentially better outcomes for your mother’s mental health.

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