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Dr.
Hsu: I would like to ask you, on February 13th, I was very intoxicated and had oral sex for a few seconds.
After a few seconds of penetration, I was unable to continue.
The female partner is very worried about the possibility of infection and has been feeling anxious every day, under a lot of stress, with no appetite and diarrhea.
Are these symptoms related to an illness? The earliest I can get tested is next week.
I would like to know where I should go for treatment if things turn out to be unfortunate.
Xiao Ge, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/02/18
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Hello, if it's really urgent, you can go to a large hospital for medical care.
Large hospitals have departments such as Urology, Infectious Diseases, and Family Medicine available every day, which can perform relevant tests.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Online answers should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it's still important to seek care at a medical institution.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2016/02/18
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It sounds like you are experiencing significant anxiety and physical symptoms following a recent encounter that has left you concerned about potential health risks. Let's break down your situation and address your concerns.
Firstly, the symptoms you are experiencing—anxiety, loss of appetite, and diarrhea—can indeed be related to stress and anxiety. When faced with a situation that raises health concerns, it is common for individuals to experience heightened anxiety, which can manifest physically. This is often referred to as psychosomatic symptoms, where psychological distress leads to physical symptoms.
In your case, the worry about potential infection from the encounter may be causing a significant amount of stress, leading to the symptoms you described. It's important to recognize that while anxiety can cause these physical symptoms, it does not necessarily mean that you have a medical condition. However, it is crucial to address both your mental and physical health.
Regarding the potential for sexually transmitted infections (STIs), it is wise to get tested if you are concerned about exposure. The timing of testing can vary depending on the specific infections you might be worried about. For example, some STIs can be detected shortly after exposure, while others may require a longer window period before testing is accurate. Generally, it is recommended to wait at least 1-2 weeks for initial testing and follow up with additional tests as necessary after a few weeks.
If you do find yourself in a situation where you test positive for an STI, the next steps would typically involve visiting a healthcare provider who specializes in sexual health, such as a urologist or an infectious disease specialist. They can provide you with the appropriate treatment and guidance based on your specific situation.
In the meantime, here are some strategies to help manage your anxiety:
1. Stay Informed: Educate yourself about STIs and their transmission. Understanding the risks can help alleviate some of your fears. However, be cautious about where you get your information; rely on reputable sources.
2. Practice Stress-Relief Techniques: Engage in activities that help reduce anxiety, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or physical exercise. These can help calm your mind and improve your overall well-being.
3. Talk About It: If you feel comfortable, discuss your concerns with a trusted friend or family member. Sometimes, just talking about your worries can help alleviate anxiety.
4. Seek Professional Help: If your anxiety becomes overwhelming or interferes with your daily life, consider speaking with a mental health professional. They can provide support and coping strategies tailored to your needs.
5. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Maintain a balanced diet, stay hydrated, and get enough sleep. These factors can significantly impact your mental health and help you cope better with stress.
Remember, it is essential to take care of both your mental and physical health. If you are feeling persistently anxious or if your physical symptoms worsen, do not hesitate to seek medical attention sooner rather than later. Your health and peace of mind are important, and there are professionals available to help you navigate this situation.
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