Postpartum Sexual Activity
My baby is currently 9 months and 3 days old.
My husband and I have not had sexual intercourse yet because I am too dry.
I read online that breastfeeding can cause dryness, but I feel completely dry...
Is there something wrong? Do I need to see a doctor? Additionally, after giving birth, whenever I lie flat, I feel a hard lump in my abdomen that moves around.
Should I seek medical attention for this?
Yaya Mama, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/02/22
Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, the questioner: Women often experience changes in both physiological and psychological aspects after childbirth, which can affect their sexual life.
If you continue to have difficulties after gradually trying, it is advisable to consult a physician for examination and treatment.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health, Dr.
Zhang.
Reply Date: 2016/02/22
More Info
Postpartum sexual health is a significant concern for many women, particularly regarding issues such as vaginal dryness and abdominal discomfort. Your experience of dryness, especially while breastfeeding, is not uncommon. Breastfeeding can lead to hormonal changes that may result in decreased estrogen levels, which can contribute to vaginal dryness. This condition can make sexual intercourse uncomfortable or even painful, leading to a reluctance to engage in sexual activity.
It's essential to understand that postpartum hormonal fluctuations are normal. While breastfeeding, the body produces higher levels of prolactin, which can inhibit the production of estrogen. This hormonal shift can lead to symptoms such as vaginal dryness, which may persist as long as you are breastfeeding. If you find that the dryness is significantly affecting your quality of life or your relationship, it may be worthwhile to consult with a healthcare provider. They can recommend various options, including water-based lubricants or vaginal moisturizers, which can help alleviate dryness during intercourse.
Regarding your abdominal concerns, the sensation of a hard lump that moves around when you lie down could be related to several factors. After childbirth, it is common for women to experience changes in their abdominal muscles and tissues. The hard lump you are feeling could be a result of the uterus contracting back to its pre-pregnancy size, or it could be related to diastasis recti, a condition where the abdominal muscles separate during pregnancy. This condition can lead to a bulging appearance and may cause discomfort.
If the lump is persistent, painful, or accompanied by other symptoms such as fever, significant swelling, or changes in bowel habits, it is advisable to seek medical attention. A healthcare provider can perform a physical examination and may recommend imaging studies, such as an ultrasound, to assess the underlying cause of the lump.
In summary, both vaginal dryness and abdominal concerns are common postpartum issues that can be addressed with the right medical guidance. If you are experiencing significant discomfort or have concerns about your symptoms, do not hesitate to reach out to your healthcare provider. They can provide personalized advice and treatment options to help you navigate these postpartum challenges effectively. Remember, taking care of your sexual health and overall well-being is crucial during this transitional period.
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