Male Sensitivity: Is It Normal and What Affects It?

Sensitive issues regarding sexuality?

Hello, doctor.
My boyfriend is very sensitive.
When I casually touch his chest, or bump my chest against his, or even playfully touch him below, he easily gets an erection.
Sometimes, if I continue to touch him, it gets even bigger, and he remains visibly aroused.
He is also very shy about it.
I want to ask why some men are so sensitive.
Is this normal? I feel like he is really too sensitive; even a gentle breath near his ear can make him erect...

# Is this related to the frequency of masturbation? He doesn't do it often, only about 1 to 2 times a week, which is quite different from other guys in his class.
He says he is afraid, so he holds back and rarely masturbates.
Q2: For a 16-year-old male, what is the normal range for how many times he can masturbate in a week?

Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/04/08

Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology

1.
The sensitivity of the body varies among individuals due to differences in constitution.

2.
The frequency of sexual activity is related to personal needs (libido) and can be adjusted as long as the physical capacity allows.
PS: It is advised not to engage in excessive self-stimulation to avoid psychogenic sexual dysfunction.

Reply Date: 2016/04/08

More Info

Understanding male sensitivity and sexual arousal can be complex, as it involves a combination of physiological, psychological, and social factors. Your observations about your boyfriend's heightened sensitivity to touch and stimulation are not uncommon, and many men experience varying levels of sensitivity.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that sensitivity can differ significantly from one individual to another. Factors such as genetics, hormonal levels, and even psychological states can influence how sensitive someone is. In your boyfriend's case, his sensitivity might be attributed to a few key factors:
1. Physiological Sensitivity: Some men are naturally more sensitive due to the density of nerve endings in certain areas of their bodies, such as the chest and genital regions. This heightened sensitivity can lead to quicker arousal in response to physical touch.
2. Psychological Factors: Emotional states and mental health can significantly impact sexual arousal. If your boyfriend feels comfortable and safe with you, he may be more likely to respond sensitively to your touch. Additionally, feelings of shyness or embarrassment can heighten arousal as well, as the body may react more intensely to stimuli when there is an element of excitement or nervousness involved.

3. Frequency of Sexual Activity: You mentioned that your boyfriend does not engage in masturbation frequently, which could also play a role in his sensitivity. When a person does not frequently experience sexual release, their body may respond more intensely to stimulation. This is because sexual arousal can build up over time, leading to heightened sensitivity when stimulation does occur.

4. Hormonal Levels: Testosterone plays a crucial role in male sexual arousal and sensitivity. Variations in testosterone levels can lead to differences in how sensitive a man is to touch and how easily he becomes aroused.
Regarding your second question about the frequency of masturbation for a 16-year-old male, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. The frequency can vary widely among individuals. Some may masturbate several times a week, while others may do so less frequently. What’s most important is that the individual feels comfortable with their own habits and that it does not interfere with their daily life or responsibilities.
In general, masturbation is considered a normal and healthy part of sexual development, and it can help individuals understand their own bodies and sexual responses better. If your boyfriend is concerned about his sensitivity or his frequency of masturbation, it might be beneficial for him to speak with a healthcare professional who can provide personalized advice and reassurance.

In conclusion, your boyfriend's sensitivity is likely a combination of physiological and psychological factors, and it is perfectly normal for some men to be more sensitive than others. Open communication about sexual preferences and comfort levels is essential in any relationship, and understanding each other's bodies can enhance intimacy and connection. If either of you has concerns about sexual health or sensitivity, consulting with a healthcare provider can provide valuable insights and guidance.

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