Worrying about being harmed or attracting misfortune?
Hello Dr.
Zhong, I have been suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) for about 13 years.
Initially, I was only concerned about whether the gas was turned off and whether the doors were securely closed.
When driving or riding a motorcycle, I would worry about hitting someone, leading me to repeatedly check and recheck to ensure I hadn’t run anyone over.
Now, I am in touch with old friends and go out to eat, sing, and drink with them.
I also feel comfortable talking to strangers.
However, after every meal, karaoke session, or drinking outing, I constantly worry that something I said or did might upset others.
I even fear that I might be harmed, attacked, or taken away.
Is this also a symptom of OCD, or could there be other symptoms emerging? Each time I worry, it lasts at least half a month to a month, and it is really distressing.
I am currently taking medication for anxiety.
Should I consider switching to a different medication? I would greatly appreciate it if you could take the time to answer my questions.
Thank you, Dr.
Zhong.
Thank you.
A-Min, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/05/08
Dr. Zhong Mingxun reply Psychiatry
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) primarily involves intrusive thoughts or repetitive behaviors.
As long as these do not interfere with daily functioning, there is generally no need for excessive concern.
Sometimes, when one obsession fades, another may emerge.
Currently, I cannot determine whether my persistent worries about certain words or actions causing displeasure, or fears of being harmed or taken away after eating, singing, or drinking, constitute an obsession.
However, for deeper processing, it is recommended that, in addition to medication, you pursue psychodynamic or humanistic therapy (rather than cognitive therapy).
Regarding medication, it is advisable to discuss options with your physician.
Reply Date: 2016/05/08
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Hello! Thank you for sharing your experiences with OCD and your concerns about harm and social anxiety. It sounds like you've been navigating a complex journey with your mental health for quite some time, and I appreciate your openness in discussing these challenges.
From what you've described, it appears that your OCD has evolved over the years. Initially, your compulsions were centered around checking behaviors related to safety, such as ensuring that gas was turned off and that doors were locked. These types of compulsions are common in OCD, where individuals feel compelled to perform certain actions to alleviate anxiety about potential harm. However, it seems that your current concerns have shifted towards social interactions and the fear of offending others or being harmed yourself.
The anxiety you experience after social situations, where you worry about your words or actions upsetting others, can indeed be a manifestation of OCD, but it may also overlap with social anxiety disorder (SAD). In social anxiety, individuals often fear negative evaluation from others and may become preoccupied with how they are perceived. This can lead to excessive worry about past interactions and a fear of future social engagements. The fact that you feel a need to ruminate on these interactions for weeks at a time suggests that your anxiety is significantly impacting your quality of life.
It's also important to note that the symptoms you've described—such as the fear of being harmed or attacked—can sometimes be associated with anxiety disorders more broadly, including generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). This type of anxiety involves persistent and excessive worry about various aspects of life, which can include fears about safety and social interactions.
Regarding your medication, it's crucial to have an open dialogue with your prescribing physician about your current symptoms and concerns. If you feel that your current medication is not adequately addressing your anxiety or OCD symptoms, it may be worth discussing alternative options or adjustments to your treatment plan. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly used to treat OCD and anxiety disorders, but individual responses to medication can vary widely. Your doctor may consider a different SSRI, a combination of medications, or even augmenting your treatment with therapy.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), particularly exposure and response prevention (ERP), is highly effective for OCD and can also help with social anxiety. This therapeutic approach involves gradually exposing yourself to the sources of your anxiety while refraining from engaging in compulsive behaviors. It can help you build resilience and reduce the power of your fears over time.
In addition to medication and therapy, consider implementing self-care strategies to manage your anxiety. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help ground you in the present moment and reduce the intensity of anxious thoughts. Engaging in regular physical activity can also be beneficial for mental health, as it releases endorphins and can improve mood.
Lastly, connecting with support groups, either in-person or online, can provide a sense of community and understanding. Sharing your experiences with others who face similar challenges can help alleviate feelings of isolation and provide practical coping strategies.
In summary, your concerns about harm and social interactions may stem from a combination of OCD and social anxiety. It's essential to communicate openly with your healthcare provider about your symptoms and treatment options. With the right support and strategies, you can work towards managing your anxiety and improving your quality of life. Thank you for reaching out, and I wish you the best on your journey to better mental health!
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