Severe pain during intercourse?
Hello, I would like to ask something.
Recently, I have been having intercourse with my boyfriend, but it is very painful, with a sharp stinging sensation, and there is slight bleeding.
Even when I shower or clean my vagina, it hurts a lot.
Urination is also painful.
I looked in the mirror at my genital area, and I noticed a yellowish bump that looks like a pimple on my labia, and the vaginal opening feels swollen.
It hurts whenever I touch it, walk, urinate, or shower.
I am worried that it might be a vaginal inflammation or infection.
If that is the case, should I see a doctor?
yang, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/05/11
Dr. Yang Wangjun reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello: Based on your description, there is epidermal damage in the vulvar area, which may involve laceration and bleeding, or it could be a sign of herpes causing pain.
It is advisable to seek medical treatment as soon as possible.
Thank you for your message!
Reply Date: 2016/05/11
More Info
Experiencing painful intercourse, medically known as dyspareunia, can be distressing and may indicate an underlying issue that requires attention. The symptoms you describe—sharp pain during intercourse, slight bleeding, pain during urination, and the presence of a yellowish bump on the vulva—are concerning and warrant further investigation.
There are several potential causes for the pain you are experiencing:
1. Infections: One of the most common causes of painful intercourse is an infection. This could be a sexually transmitted infection (STI) such as chlamydia or gonorrhea, or a yeast infection, which can cause inflammation and discomfort. The yellow bump you mentioned could be a sign of a genital wart, which is caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV), or it could be a cyst or another type of lesion.
2. Vulvodynia: This is a condition characterized by chronic pain in the vulvar area without an identifiable cause. It can lead to discomfort during intercourse and other activities.
3. Vaginal Dryness: Insufficient lubrication during intercourse can lead to pain. This can be due to hormonal changes, particularly in women who are breastfeeding or approaching menopause.
4. Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID): This is an infection of the reproductive organs that can cause pain during intercourse, as well as other symptoms such as fever and unusual discharge.
5. Allergic Reactions or Irritation: Sometimes, reactions to soaps, detergents, or condoms can cause irritation and pain.
Given the symptoms you are experiencing, it is crucial to seek medical attention. Here are some steps you should consider:
- Schedule an Appointment: Visit a healthcare provider, preferably a gynecologist, who can perform a thorough examination. They may conduct tests to check for infections or other conditions.
- Be Prepared to Discuss Symptoms: When you see the doctor, be ready to describe your symptoms in detail, including when they started, the nature of the pain, and any other changes you have noticed.
- Avoid Sexual Activity: Until you have been evaluated by a healthcare professional, it may be wise to refrain from sexual intercourse to prevent further irritation or injury.
- Maintain Hygiene: Continue to keep the area clean, but be gentle to avoid exacerbating the pain. Avoid using harsh soaps or products that could irritate the area.
- Consider Over-the-Counter Pain Relief: If the pain is significant, you might consider taking over-the-counter pain relief medications, but consult with your healthcare provider before doing so.
In conclusion, painful intercourse can stem from various causes, and it is essential to address it promptly. Ignoring the symptoms may lead to worsening conditions or complications. Seeking medical advice will not only help identify the cause but also provide you with the appropriate treatment to alleviate your discomfort and improve your sexual health. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many women experience similar issues, so do not hesitate to reach out for help.
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