Penile issues
Hello Doctor, I feel that my issue is a bit complicated and I hope you can help me as I am really troubled.
I am 21 years old, 174 cm tall, and weigh 58 kg.
Before the summer, my method of masturbation involved lying on my stomach and using my hand to stimulate my penis, or rubbing my penis against a wooden chair.
With this method, I could achieve ejaculation with only a slight erection (which I consider soft).
I am a bit worried that my penis may have become less sensitive due to my previous masturbation techniques, or that the erectile tissue may have been damaged.
Therefore, in July, I switched to a more typical male masturbation technique.
I also suspect that my frequent masturbation may have prevented me from achieving a firm erection like that of a cucumber.
I have stopped masturbating for the past four days, and I have noticed that my firmness is gradually improving.
1.
I would like to ask the doctor if having a longer penis can lead to incomplete engorgement, making it difficult to achieve the normal hardness that other men have, as I consider my penis to be quite large.
2.
I feel like the sensory nerves in my penis might be damaged, as I really do not feel much when being licked or penetrated.
What should I do about this?
3.
Regarding the issue of hardness, sometimes I can achieve a very firm erection, but it only lasts for a short time.
Is this related to the frequency of masturbation? I really need the doctor's help.
Thank you.
Lao Chen, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/08/22
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello: 1.
Generally, excessive length of the penis does not lead to incomplete engorgement.
2.
It is advisable to reduce the frequency of masturbation, maintain a healthy diet, and uphold good lifestyle habits.
3.
The definition of "very hard" lasting only for a short time is unclear.
Mr.
Chen, I understand your discomfort and concerns.
Your previous method of masturbation was indeed inappropriate, as it could potentially injure not only the penis but also the testicles.
Regarding your concerns about insufficient rigidity, short duration, or lack of sensation, I recommend visiting a urology clinic for a thorough physical examination and blood tests to help address your issues.
Reply Date: 2016/08/22
More Info
It's understandable that you're feeling concerned about your sexual health, especially at a young age. Many young men experience various issues related to erections and sensitivity, and it's important to address these concerns with accurate information and guidance.
1. Erection Issues: It's common for young men to experience fluctuations in erection quality. Factors such as stress, anxiety, and even the frequency of masturbation can impact erectile function. In your case, you mentioned that you've changed your masturbation technique and reduced the frequency, which can indeed help restore sensitivity and improve erectile quality over time. The body often needs time to adjust, especially if you've been using a method that may have desensitized your penis.
2. Penis Size and Erection Quality: Regarding your concern about penis size and its effect on erection quality, it's important to note that penis size does not directly correlate with erectile function. Erection quality is influenced more by blood flow, nerve function, and psychological factors than by the size of the penis. If there are concerns about blood flow or nerve damage, a healthcare professional can conduct tests to evaluate these aspects.
3. Sensitivity Concerns: If you're experiencing reduced sensitivity, it could be a result of the masturbation technique you were using. The friction and pressure from certain methods can lead to temporary desensitization. Switching to a more conventional method, as you've started doing, may help restore sensitivity over time. If you find that sensitivity does not improve, it might be beneficial to consult a urologist or a sexual health specialist who can provide further evaluation.
4. Erection Hardness and Frequency of Masturbation: The frequency of masturbation can affect how your body responds during sexual arousal. Excessive masturbation may lead to temporary fatigue of the erectile tissues, resulting in less firm erections. Reducing the frequency, as you've done, can help your body regain its responsiveness. It's also important to ensure that you're engaging in a healthy lifestyle, including proper nutrition, regular exercise, and adequate sleep, as these factors contribute to overall sexual health.
5. Psychological Factors: Anxiety and stress can significantly impact sexual performance. If you're feeling anxious about your sexual health, it may create a cycle where anxiety leads to performance issues, which in turn increases anxiety. Practicing relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, can help alleviate some of this stress. If anxiety persists, speaking with a mental health professional may be beneficial.
6. When to Seek Help: If your concerns continue or worsen, it’s important to seek professional help. A healthcare provider can conduct a thorough evaluation, including physical examinations and possibly blood tests, to rule out any underlying medical conditions. They can also provide tailored advice and treatment options based on your specific situation.
In summary, while it’s normal to have concerns about sexual health, many factors can contribute to issues with erections and sensitivity. By making adjustments to your habits, managing stress, and seeking professional guidance when necessary, you can work towards improving your sexual health. Remember, open communication with healthcare providers is key to addressing these issues effectively.
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