Is it related to medication or psychological factors?
Hello, doctor! My boyfriend previously took Viagra while being intimate with his ex-girlfriend, and he mentioned that he took two pills at once (this was around the end of last year).
He is not currently using it.
However, when we are intimate, I feel that his penis is not very firm and somewhat soft, making penetration a bit difficult; yet he says everything is normal when he watches adult films and masturbates.
I'm unsure where the issue lies.
I did some research online, and some people say it could be due to side effects, while others mention that the body metabolizes the drug without any lasting effects, and some suggest it might be a psychological issue.
So, does taking the medication and then stopping have any impact on the firmness of the penis?
Juzi, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/08/24
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello, based on your description, you took two doses of Viagra at the end of last year.
Since it has been a long time since the first dose and the amount of medication used was low, the metabolism and side effects of the drug are likely minimal.
Additionally, consider your boyfriend's psychological and physical condition, such as his mood, whether he is overly fatigued from work, if he smokes, or if he has high blood pressure or diabetes.
The dynamics of your relationship or psychological factors could also play a role.
If you still have questions, please consult a urologist.
Reply Date: 2016/08/24
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a complex issue influenced by various factors, including medication, psychological aspects, and physical health. In your case, it seems that your boyfriend's experience with Viagra (sildenafil) and the subsequent changes in his erectile function could stem from a combination of these factors.
Firstly, it's important to understand that Viagra is a medication used to treat ED by increasing blood flow to the penis, which helps achieve and maintain an erection. While it is effective for many, its effects are temporary and typically last for a few hours. Once the medication is out of the system, which usually occurs within a day, its effects cease. Therefore, if your boyfriend has not taken Viagra recently, it is unlikely that the medication itself is causing his current erectile issues.
However, there are several potential reasons for the changes you are observing:
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can significantly impact erectile function. If your boyfriend feels anxious about his performance or is preoccupied with thoughts about his past experiences with Viagra, this could lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection. Psychological factors are often a major contributor to ED, especially in younger men.
2. Physical Health: Various physical health issues can contribute to ED, including cardiovascular problems, diabetes, hormonal imbalances, and neurological conditions. If your boyfriend has underlying health issues, these could be affecting his erectile function. It's essential for him to maintain a healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and avoiding smoking and excessive alcohol consumption.
3. Medication Side Effects: While Viagra itself does not typically cause long-term erectile dysfunction after discontinuation, other medications or substances he may be taking could have side effects that affect sexual performance. If he is on any other medications, it would be worth discussing these with a healthcare provider.
4. Age and Hormonal Changes: As men age, testosterone levels can decline, which may also contribute to ED. If your boyfriend is experiencing other symptoms of low testosterone, such as fatigue or decreased libido, it might be worth getting his hormone levels checked.
5. Communication and Relationship Dynamics: Open communication about sexual health and preferences is crucial in a relationship. If either partner feels uncomfortable or anxious, it can create a cycle of performance anxiety that exacerbates the issue. Encouraging a supportive and understanding environment can help alleviate some of this pressure.
In conclusion, while the use of Viagra in the past may have contributed to his initial experience with ED, it is unlikely to be the sole cause of his current difficulties. A combination of psychological, physical, and relational factors may be at play. It would be beneficial for your boyfriend to consult with a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health to explore these issues further. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation and recommend appropriate treatment options, which may include therapy for psychological factors, lifestyle changes, or medical interventions if necessary. Open dialogue between you and your boyfriend about these concerns can also foster a supportive atmosphere, helping both of you navigate this sensitive topic together.
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