Struggling with Binge Eating: Seeking Help for Emotional Eating Issues - Psychiatry

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Inability to control binge eating?


Hello doctor, usually after I have lunch in the afternoon, I soon feel the urge to eat again.
Sometimes I can suppress it, but other times I can't and end up overeating.
Just this afternoon, I suddenly craved something to eat, so I had a few cherries to try to distract myself from the desire for junk food.
However, I couldn't resist and ended up grabbing a pack of Yi Mei pancakes.
Previously, I had also given in and eaten five or six packs at once.
When my mom went out, I secretly had a small meat bun.
Later, I craved some Cola-flavored snacks.
Since we have large bags of snacks at home for the Ghost Festival, I ended up eating half a bag of those snacks.
By the end, I felt so full that I couldn't eat anymore, but I kept stuffing myself.
I was worried my mom would come back and see me eating again, so I stopped.
This all happened in just over an hour.
I also don't like eating a lot in front of others; I always binge eat when I'm alone.
I'm really worried that I'm going to gain weight again, but I don't induce vomiting.
However, every time I binge eat, I feel very down, don't want to go out, and think I look fat.
My stomach feels so full that it feels like it's going to burst.
I've actually been experiencing these symptoms for several months.
I'm not sure exactly when it started because it's a continuous cycle.
There have been times when I could control it better, but then I suddenly lose control and eat recklessly.
I also experience constipation.
I considered seeing a doctor before, but my family said it wasn't serious enough.
However, I'm really troubled by this.
I don't want to keep going through this cycle of binge eating, which makes me unhealthy and uncomfortable.
I don't know what methods I can use to improve this.
Thank you.

K, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/08/24

Dr. Huang Weiqin reply Psychiatry


To the inquiring netizen: Based on your described situation, you may be experiencing symptoms related to binge eating disorder.
However, a diagnosis requires ruling out any endocrine or metabolic issues first.
It is advisable to be accompanied by friends or family and visit a psychiatrist (or psychosomatic medicine specialist) for an outpatient consultation, where a mental health professional can assist with the necessary evaluations and differential diagnosis.
If you are willing to undergo treatment, this condition can typically improve.
Wishing you safety and health! Thank you for your inquiry.

Reply Date: 2016/08/24

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Binge eating disorder (BED) is a serious condition that can significantly impact both physical and mental health. It often involves episodes of eating large quantities of food, feeling a loss of control during these episodes, and experiencing distress afterward. Your description of feeling compelled to eat even when you're not hungry, followed by feelings of guilt and shame, aligns with the symptoms of BED. It’s important to recognize that this is not just a matter of willpower; it is a complex disorder that often requires professional intervention.

Firstly, it’s crucial to understand that binge eating can be triggered by various emotional factors, including stress, anxiety, depression, and even boredom. In your case, it seems that emotional eating is a coping mechanism for dealing with feelings of loneliness or distress. This cycle of eating to cope with emotions, followed by guilt and shame, can create a vicious cycle that is hard to break without help.

Here are some strategies that may help you manage your binge eating:
1. Seek Professional Help: It’s essential to consult with a healthcare provider, such as a psychologist or a psychiatrist, who specializes in eating disorders. They can provide a proper diagnosis and develop a tailored treatment plan. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for BED, as it helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors related to food and body image.

2. Consider Medication: In some cases, medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) like Zoloft (sertraline) can be beneficial. These medications can help reduce the frequency of binge eating episodes and improve mood. However, it’s important to discuss this option with your doctor, especially since you mentioned stopping medication previously.

3. Mindful Eating: Practicing mindful eating can help you become more aware of your hunger cues and emotional triggers. This involves paying attention to what you eat, savoring each bite, and recognizing when you are full. Keeping a food diary can also help you track your eating patterns and identify triggers.

4. Develop Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Instead of turning to food for comfort, try to find alternative ways to cope with your emotions. This could include engaging in physical activity, practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation, or pursuing hobbies that you enjoy.

5. Establish a Routine: Having a regular eating schedule can help regulate your hunger and reduce the urge to binge. Aim for balanced meals that include a variety of nutrients, which can help keep you satisfied and reduce cravings.

6. Support Groups: Joining a support group for individuals with binge eating disorder can provide a sense of community and understanding. Sharing your experiences with others who are going through similar struggles can be incredibly validating and helpful.

7. Educate Yourself: Understanding more about binge eating disorder can empower you to take control of your situation. There are many resources available, including books, websites, and support organizations that focus on eating disorders.

8. Communicate with Family: If you feel comfortable, talk to your family about your struggles. Their support can be invaluable, and they may be more understanding than you expect.
Remember, recovery from binge eating disorder is a journey that takes time and patience. It’s important to be kind to yourself and recognize that seeking help is a sign of strength. You don’t have to go through this alone, and with the right support and strategies, you can work towards a healthier relationship with food and your body.

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