Is this an anxiety disorder that requires treatment?
1.
Because I am going abroad to study in September this year, I am desperately trying to learn the language.
My family is keeping a close watch on me because I failed the proficiency test last December.
They often say that I am not serious, but I am really trying hard.
I feel anxious to the point that every time I think about memorizing vocabulary or studying grammar books, I end up crying while doing it.
However, I feel somewhat powerless.
Additionally, as I struggle with practicing the piano, my patience is wearing thin, and I often feel like crying.
2.
When I am in class, studying, or feeling anxious, I often pick at my fingers, tear my lips, and sometimes even make them bleed.
During these moments, I find it difficult to think, which leads me to repeatedly memorize vocabulary and reread the same books.
Sometimes, I truly cannot control my behavior.
nvhai, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/02/18
Dr. Qiu Junda reply Psychiatry
It seems that you have been experiencing stress recently, which has led to feelings of anxiety and emotional distress.
Anxiety is a normal emotional response, but when it becomes excessive, it can cause significant discomfort.
Given your physical and mental distress, I hope you can seek consultation and treatment at a mental health clinic nearby as soon as possible.
Of course, medication is not always necessary to improve your situation.
Reply Date: 2017/02/18
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing significant anxiety related to your upcoming study abroad experience, particularly in the context of language learning and academic performance. This anxiety is manifesting in various ways, including physical symptoms like nail-biting and lip-picking, as well as emotional distress such as crying and feelings of inadequacy. It's important to recognize that these symptoms can be indicative of a broader anxiety disorder, and seeking treatment can be beneficial.
Understanding Anxiety Symptoms
Anxiety is a normal emotional response to stress, but when it becomes overwhelming and starts to interfere with daily functioning, it may be classified as an anxiety disorder. Symptoms can include excessive worry, restlessness, difficulty concentrating, and physical manifestations such as muscle tension or compulsive behaviors (like the nail-biting and lip-picking you mentioned). In your case, the pressure from family expectations and the fear of failure in language proficiency tests seem to be exacerbating your anxiety.
The Importance of Seeking Treatment
Given the intensity of your feelings and behaviors, it may be wise to seek professional help. Treatment for anxiety can take various forms, including psychotherapy (such as cognitive-behavioral therapy), medication, or a combination of both. Therapy can help you develop coping strategies, challenge negative thought patterns, and address the root causes of your anxiety. Medications, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or anti-anxiety medications, can also be effective in managing symptoms.
Self-Help Strategies
In addition to professional treatment, there are several self-help strategies you can employ to manage your anxiety:
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help calm your mind and reduce physical tension. Regular practice can make it easier to access these techniques when you feel anxious.
2. Structured Study Plans: Break your study material into smaller, manageable sections. Set specific, achievable goals for each study session to avoid feeling overwhelmed. This can help you feel more in control and reduce anxiety about your performance.
3. Limit Comparisons: Try to focus on your own progress rather than comparing yourself to others. Everyone learns at their own pace, and it's important to recognize your unique journey.
4. Physical Activity: Regular exercise can significantly reduce anxiety levels. It helps release endorphins, which are natural mood lifters.
5. Social Support: Talk to friends or family members about your feelings. Sometimes, just sharing your worries can alleviate some of the burden.
6. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Ensure you are getting enough sleep, eating a balanced diet, and avoiding excessive caffeine or alcohol, as these can exacerbate anxiety symptoms.
Conclusion
In summary, while anxiety is a common response to the pressures of studying abroad, it is crucial to address it proactively. Seeking professional help can provide you with the tools and support you need to manage your anxiety effectively. Additionally, incorporating self-help strategies into your routine can empower you to cope with stressors in a healthier way. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and there are resources available to help you navigate your journey successfully.
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