Pain During Intercourse: Causes and Solutions for Women - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Hello doctor, in the past, I only experienced pain during the first time I had intercourse with my boyfriend, but recently I have been experiencing pain during penetration.
It only becomes comfortable after I adjust.
Is this normal? (I have intercourse about once a week on average.)

Jean, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/03/11

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, it should be considered normal; just monitor it.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2017/03/11

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Understanding pain during intercourse is a common concern among women, and it can stem from various physiological and psychological factors. Based on the information provided, it seems that you have experienced discomfort during intercourse that was not present in the past, except for your first experience. This change can be attributed to several potential causes, which I will outline below, along with some solutions to address the issue.


Causes of Pain During Intercourse
1. Physiological Factors:
- Vaginal Dryness: One of the most common causes of pain during intercourse is insufficient lubrication. This can occur due to hormonal changes, stress, or certain medications. If you are experiencing dryness, using a water-based lubricant can help alleviate discomfort.

- Pelvic Floor Tension: Stress and anxiety can lead to increased tension in the pelvic floor muscles, making penetration painful. This is often referred to as vaginismus, where involuntary muscle contractions occur during attempted intercourse.

- Infections or Inflammation: Conditions such as yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or sexually transmitted infections can cause pain during intercourse. If you notice any unusual discharge, odor, or irritation, it’s essential to consult a healthcare provider for evaluation and treatment.

- Endometriosis or Other Medical Conditions: Endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, or fibroids can lead to significant pain during intercourse. These conditions often require medical intervention for proper management.

2. Psychological Factors:
- Anxiety and Stress: Emotional factors can significantly impact sexual experiences. If you are feeling stressed about your studies or personal life, this may translate into physical discomfort during intercourse. It’s important to address any underlying anxiety, as it can affect your overall sexual health.

- Past Trauma or Negative Experiences: If you have had previous negative experiences related to sex, this could lead to anxiety or fear during intercourse, resulting in pain.


Solutions and Recommendations
1. Communication with Your Partner: Openly discussing your discomfort with your partner can help alleviate anxiety and improve your sexual experience. It’s important to establish a comfortable environment where both partners feel safe to express their needs and boundaries.

2. Use of Lubricants: If dryness is a concern, consider using a lubricant during intercourse. This can significantly reduce friction and make the experience more comfortable.

3. Relaxation Techniques: Engaging in relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help reduce pelvic tension and anxiety. Creating a calm atmosphere before intimacy can also enhance relaxation.

4. Gradual Approach: If you are experiencing pain, consider taking a gradual approach to penetration. Start with foreplay to increase arousal and natural lubrication, and communicate with your partner about what feels comfortable.

5. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If the pain persists, it’s crucial to seek medical advice. A healthcare provider can conduct a thorough examination to rule out any underlying medical conditions and provide appropriate treatment options.

6. Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to your discomfort, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health. They can help address any anxiety or past trauma that may be affecting your sexual experiences.


Conclusion
Experiencing pain during intercourse can be distressing, but it is essential to remember that you are not alone, and there are solutions available. By understanding the potential causes and implementing strategies to address them, you can work towards a more comfortable and enjoyable sexual experience. If the issue continues, do not hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional for personalized advice and treatment. Your sexual health is an important aspect of your overall well-being, and seeking help is a positive step towards improvement.

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