Contact classmates?
I graduated from middle school 20 years ago and have not seen my classmates since, but I still have these memories every day.
The doctor said that it's not necessary to dwell on things from a long time ago, but I keep my memories intact and even comment on Facebook when I see them.
I wonder if this is considered normal or abnormal.
Jiu, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/05/23
Dr. Ding Shuyan reply Psychiatry
Hello, it doesn't sound abnormal.
Just be mindful of the content in the Facebook comments! Wishing you all the best, Dr.
Ding Shuo-Yan.
Reply Date: 2017/05/23
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It's completely normal to hold onto memories from your school days, even after many years. Memory is a complex and fascinating aspect of human cognition, and the way we remember past experiences can vary significantly from person to person. In your case, the fact that you can recall memories from your middle school days and even engage with those memories through social media indicates that you have a strong capacity for long-term memory retention.
Memories from our formative years, such as those from school, often hold significant emotional weight. These memories can be tied to friendships, experiences, and milestones that shape who we are. The emotional connection to these memories can make them more vivid and easier to recall. This phenomenon is often referred to as "autobiographical memory," which is the memory system that involves recollections of personal experiences and specific events in one's life.
Moreover, the ability to remember specific details from the past can be influenced by several factors, including the emotional significance of the events, the frequency with which you revisit those memories, and even the social context in which they are recalled. For example, if you frequently think about your school days or engage with friends from that time on social media, it can reinforce those memories and keep them fresh in your mind.
It's also worth noting that memory is not a static process. It can change over time, and the way we recall memories can be influenced by new experiences and information. This means that while you may have vivid memories from your school days now, the details may evolve as you continue to reflect on them or discuss them with others.
If you find joy in reminiscing about your school days and it doesn't interfere with your daily life or responsibilities, then it's a healthy part of your cognitive experience. However, if you ever feel overwhelmed by these memories or if they begin to negatively impact your current life, it might be worth discussing with a mental health professional. They can help you explore your feelings and provide strategies for managing your thoughts.
In summary, holding onto memories from your school days is entirely normal and can be a positive aspect of your cognitive and emotional life. Embrace these memories as part of your personal history, and continue to engage with them in a way that brings you joy and connection with others.
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