Am I Pregnant? Pregnancy Risks After Intimate Contact

Does this mean that pregnancy is unlikely?

I had intimate physical contact with my girlfriend on March 12, but there was no sexual intercourse.
However, our lower bodies touched each other, and there was no ejaculation, but I am concerned that pre-ejaculate fluid might have come into contact (since we were under the covers).
After that, I touched my girlfriend's genital area with my hands.
My girlfriend's menstrual cycle is not very regular; she mentioned that it started to normalize in January and February of this year.
Theoretically, her period was due on March 18, but it didn't arrive until March 24 (I took a pregnancy test that morning, which showed one line, and her period came that evening).
Her next period came on April 27 (I also took a test that morning, which showed one line, and her period arrived that evening).
Then, on May 14, she experienced unexpected bleeding.
She saw a doctor on May 15, who performed an ultrasound and suggested it might be ovulation bleeding.
The doctor also conducted a pregnancy test, which showed one line.
This month, her period arrived on May 31, and it typically lasts about five days with a flow that she describes as relatively heavy and dark red in color.
Given this information, should we assume that she is not pregnant? I have seen some online accounts that make me worry about the possibility of a misdiagnosis by the doctor or the occurrence of a false period, and I still feel anxious about it.
Could you please help clarify this for me? Thank you.

Xueyin, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/06/05

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

On March 12, I had intimate physical contact with my girlfriend, but there was no sexual intercourse.
However, our lower bodies touched each other, and there was no ejaculation, but I am concerned that pre-ejaculate fluid might have come into contact (since we were under the covers).
Later, I touched my girlfriend's genital area with my hand.
My girlfriend's menstrual cycle is not very regular; I heard that it started to normalize in January and February of this year.
Theoretically, her period was due on March 18, but it didn't arrive until March 24 (I took a pregnancy test that morning, which showed one line, and her period came that evening).
After that, her period came again on April 27 (I also took a test that morning, which showed one line, and her period arrived that evening).
Then, on May 14, she had some unexplained bleeding.
On May 15, she saw a doctor who performed an ultrasound and suggested it might be ovulation bleeding.
The doctor also conducted a pregnancy test, which showed one line.
This month, her period arrived on May 31.
Her menstrual flow usually lasts about five days, and she says it is relatively heavy, with a dark red color.
Should I conclude that she is not pregnant?
Answer: Yes.

P.S.
It is recommended to refer to the National Health Service's "Sexual Health E-Learning" or the Obstetrics and Gynecology Society's "Adolescent Contraceptive Guidance" for more information.
http://goo.gl/dc6PfW

Reply Date: 2017/06/05

More Info

Based on the information you've provided, it seems that you are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy after intimate contact with your girlfriend, particularly given the timing of her menstrual cycle and the results of home pregnancy tests. Let's break down the situation and clarify some important points regarding pregnancy risks and menstrual cycles.

First, it's important to understand how pregnancy occurs. Pregnancy typically happens when sperm fertilizes an egg, which usually occurs during sexual intercourse. In your case, you mentioned that there was no penetration or ejaculation, but you are concerned about the possibility of pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) containing sperm. While pre-ejaculate can carry sperm, the likelihood of pregnancy from such contact is significantly lower than from direct ejaculation into the vagina. However, it is not impossible, especially if sperm were to come into contact with the vaginal area.

Regarding your girlfriend's menstrual cycle, you noted that her period was expected on March 18 but arrived late on March 24. This delay could be attributed to various factors, including stress, hormonal fluctuations, or changes in her body. It's also worth noting that menstrual cycles can vary in regularity, especially in younger women or those who have recently experienced changes in their lifestyle or health.

The home pregnancy tests you conducted showed a single line, indicating a negative result. Home pregnancy tests are generally reliable when used correctly, especially after a missed period. However, if the test is taken too early, it may not detect the hormone hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin) if pregnancy has occurred. Since your girlfriend's period did arrive, it is a strong indicator that she is not pregnant.

The subsequent events you described, including the bleeding on May 14, which was identified by the doctor as possible ovulation bleeding, further suggest that her menstrual cycle is functioning normally. Ovulation bleeding can occur in some women and is typically light and short-lived. The fact that she has had regular periods since then, with the last one on May 31, reinforces the likelihood that she is not pregnant.

In summary, based on the information provided, it seems unlikely that your girlfriend is pregnant. The negative pregnancy tests, the arrival of her menstrual period, and the doctor's assessment of the bleeding all point toward a normal menstrual cycle. However, if there are ongoing concerns or if her cycle continues to be irregular, it would be advisable for her to consult with a healthcare provider for further evaluation.

It's also important to consider contraception if you and your girlfriend wish to avoid pregnancy in the future. There are various methods available, including hormonal birth control, condoms, and other forms of contraception that can help prevent unintended pregnancies.

In conclusion, while the possibility of pregnancy cannot be entirely ruled out without further testing, the evidence suggests that your girlfriend is not pregnant. If either of you has lingering concerns, seeking advice from a healthcare professional is always a good step to ensure peace of mind and proper health management.

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