Could I Be Pregnant? Risks After Intimate Contact

Can I get pregnant?

Hello Doctor: My girlfriend had her period from November 23 to November 28, lasting 6 days, with a cycle of about 30 days.
From November 30 to December 3, we had intimate contact.
During the first time, I used a masturbation cup and accidentally let the end of the cup slip and come into contact with her genital area, but neither of us felt any direct contact.
I am concerned that any secretions might have transferred to her.
Visually, there was no noticeable discharge.
If there was accidental contact, how risky is it? During the second time, while I was masturbating, my girlfriend was sitting on my right thigh.
I only touched her thigh and did not make contact with her genital area, and then I finished on the side.
For the third and fourth times, I removed my pants, put on a condom, and penetrated her for about 5 minutes before finishing on the side.
I also checked to ensure the condom did not break.
My girlfriend is expected to get her period on December 23, but it has not arrived yet.
She is experiencing breast tenderness and pain upon pressure.
Is this more likely to be a sign of her upcoming period or an indication of pregnancy? Based on the situations described, is there a possibility of pregnancy?

Nìmíng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/12/25

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Your girlfriend's menstrual period lasted from November 23 to November 28 for six days, with a cycle of approximately 30 days.
From November 30 to December 3, there was intimate contact.
During the first encounter, I used a masturbation sleeve and accidentally slipped it away from her body.
Neither of us felt any direct contact, but I was concerned about the possibility of any bodily fluids transferring.
Visually, there was no noticeable discharge.
If there was any accidental transfer, would it be dangerous? Answer: It would not be very dangerous.

During the second encounter, while I was masturbating, my girlfriend was sitting on my right thigh.
I only touched her thigh and did not make contact with her genital area.
Later, I finished on the side.
For the third and fourth encounters, I removed my pants, put on a condom, and then had intercourse for about five minutes before finishing on the side, ensuring the condom was intact.

My girlfriend is expected to get her period on December 23, but it has not arrived yet.
She is experiencing breast tenderness and pain when pressed.
Is this more likely a sign that her period is approaching or a sign of pregnancy? Answer: It is more likely a sign that her period is approaching.

Given the above circumstances, is there a chance of pregnancy? Answer: There is no chance of pregnancy.

Reply Date: 2017/12/25

More Info

When it comes to the question of whether you could be pregnant after intimate contact, it’s essential to understand the mechanics of conception and the risks associated with various forms of sexual activity. Based on the details you provided, let's break down the situation.

Firstly, for pregnancy to occur, sperm must come into contact with an egg. This typically happens through vaginal intercourse, where ejaculation occurs inside the vagina. In your case, you mentioned several instances of intimate contact, but it appears that there was no direct ejaculation inside the vagina, which significantly reduces the likelihood of pregnancy.

1. Intimate Contact and Sperm Transfer: During your first encounter, you used a sex toy (the "flying cup") and were concerned about the possibility of sperm transfer. If there was no direct contact with bodily fluids, the risk of pregnancy is minimal. Sperm can survive outside the body for a short period, but the chances of it causing pregnancy through indirect contact (like what you described) are very low, especially if there was no visible discharge.

2. Subsequent Encounters: In the following encounters, you mentioned using a condom and ensuring it was intact. This is a crucial step in preventing pregnancy. If the condom was used correctly and did not break, the risk of pregnancy is significantly reduced.
3. Symptoms of Pregnancy: You noted that your girlfriend is experiencing breast tenderness, which can be a symptom of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or early pregnancy. However, breast tenderness alone is not a definitive indicator of pregnancy, as many women experience similar symptoms before their period. The timing of her expected period (December 23) is also important. If her period is late, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test for a more accurate assessment.

4. Understanding the Menstrual Cycle: Given that your girlfriend's cycle is approximately 30 days, ovulation typically occurs around 14 days after the first day of her last period. If she had her period from November 23 to November 28, she would likely ovulate around December 7. If any sperm were to enter her vagina around that time, there could be a risk of pregnancy. However, based on your description, it seems that the risk is low.

5. Next Steps: If your girlfriend's period does not arrive on time, the best course of action is for her to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are designed to detect the hormone hCG, which is produced during pregnancy. If the test is positive, she should consult with a healthcare provider for further evaluation and guidance.

In summary, while there is always a risk of pregnancy with any intimate contact, the specific circumstances you described suggest that the likelihood is low. However, if there are any concerns or if her period is late, taking a pregnancy test would provide clarity. It’s also important to have open communication with your partner about these concerns and to consider discussing contraception options to prevent unintended pregnancies in the future.

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