Concerns About Premature Ejaculation: A Young Patient's Dilemma - Urology

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Re#126004 #125981


I sincerely apologize for bothering you again, but your response to #125981 has put my mind at ease, so I am following up with another question regarding #126004 (I am not entirely sure about the reference number, but I did ask a second time and mentioned the previous number in that inquiry).
On the same day I asked, I slightly stimulated my penis, and even though it was just for a moment, I felt a strong urge to ejaculate (almost instantaneously).
I managed to hold back...
but I am starting to worry again.
It has already been 2 to 3 weeks as you mentioned, yet there has been no improvement...
Doctor, I am really anxious; just thinking about having such symptoms at a young age makes me concerned about my future.
I apologize profusely for sending two questions in one day and bothering you.
I hope you can help this worried high school student.

ABC, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/07/23

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: If you have stopped DIY activities for 2-3 weeks and have been mindful of your daily life but still haven't recovered, it may be time to seek medical attention.
Don't worry too much; it is mostly likely a temporary condition.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2017/07/23

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among young men, and it can lead to significant anxiety and distress, particularly for those who are still in their teenage years. Your feelings of worry and urgency regarding this issue are completely understandable, especially considering the impact it can have on future relationships and sexual experiences.
Firstly, it's important to recognize that PE is often a multifactorial issue, influenced by psychological, biological, and relational factors. In many cases, it can be linked to anxiety, particularly performance anxiety, which is common among younger individuals who may feel pressure to perform well sexually. This anxiety can create a cycle where the fear of premature ejaculation leads to increased anxiety, which in turn can exacerbate the problem.

From a medical standpoint, there are several approaches to managing premature ejaculation. Behavioral techniques, such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique, can be effective. These methods involve learning to control the timing of ejaculation through practice and can help desensitize the individual to the sensations leading up to ejaculation.
In addition to behavioral techniques, there are also pharmacological options available. Certain topical anesthetics can be applied to the penis to reduce sensitivity, which may help delay ejaculation. Medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) have also been found to be effective in treating PE, as they can increase the time it takes to ejaculate. However, these should only be considered after consulting with a healthcare professional who can provide guidance tailored to your specific situation.

It's also worth mentioning that lifestyle factors can play a role in sexual health. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can improve overall well-being and may help reduce anxiety levels. Engaging in open communication with a partner about sexual concerns can also alleviate some of the pressure and anxiety associated with performance.

If you have been experiencing these symptoms for a prolonged period without improvement, it may be beneficial to seek professional help. A healthcare provider, such as a urologist or a sexual health specialist, can offer a thorough evaluation and discuss potential treatment options. They can also help address any underlying psychological factors contributing to the issue.

Lastly, it's essential to remember that you are not alone in this experience. Many young men face similar challenges, and seeking help is a positive step towards finding a solution. With the right support and treatment, it is entirely possible to manage premature ejaculation and improve your sexual health and confidence.
In summary, while premature ejaculation can be distressing, it is a treatable condition. Consider exploring behavioral techniques, discussing pharmacological options with a healthcare provider, and addressing any underlying anxiety. Taking proactive steps can lead to improvement and a more fulfilling sexual experience in the future.

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