Dyspareunia
Hello doctor, I am 20 years old and experience pain during sexual intercourse.
It's not just the penetration of the penis that hurts; even finger insertion causes discomfort, cramping, and a sensation of being pinched.
I consulted a gynecologist who suggested that my retroverted pelvis might be causing a shorter vagina, along with a weakened posterior wall, which makes it more susceptible to pain.
They recommended finding comfortable positions and practicing yoga long-term to potentially improve the situation.
I would like to ask how retroversion of the pelvis and retroversion of the uterus affect sexual intercourse.
I found many online sources stating that uterine retroversion can lead to pain during intercourse, but there is less information regarding pelvic retroversion.
Wang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/08/14
Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
At the age of 20, I experience pain during sexual intercourse, not only when the penis is inserted but also when fingers are inserted, leading to a sensation of soreness, cramping, or being pinched.
I consulted a gynecologist who suggested that my retroverted pelvis might be causing a shorter vagina, along with a weaker posterior wall, making it more susceptible to pain.
The doctor recommended finding comfortable positions and practicing yoga long-term for improvement.
I would like to ask how retroversion of the pelvis and retroversion of the uterus affect sexual intercourse.
I found many online sources stating that uterine retroversion leads to pain during intercourse, but there is less information regarding pelvic retroversion.
Answer: The impact of pelvic retroversion and uterine retroversion on sexual intercourse is not definitively established.
Here are some considerations for managing pain during sexual activity:
1.
It is advisable for the male partner to remain still, allowing the female partner to move at her own pace.
This way, she can control the depth that feels comfortable for her.
Similarly, in the woman-on-top position, the male partner should refrain from excessive movement, allowing her to find a comfortable speed and depth.
2.
For women, foreplay is essential.
This is particularly important for those with limited sexual experience.
Most women require a significant amount of time (approximately 30-45 minutes) for "warming up" to enjoy intercourse.
It is recommended to spend at least 30 minutes on kissing, hugging, mutual full-body caressing, and oral sex before vaginal intercourse.
Any woman experiencing vaginal dryness or discomfort should ensure ample foreplay to facilitate sufficient lubrication.
The use of lubricants is also an option.
3.
Relaxation techniques, such as progressive muscle relaxation training, can help eliminate tension through repeated cycles of "contraction-relaxation" of the muscles, achieving a state of relaxation.
4.
When pelvic congestion causes "menstrual-like pain," it is advisable to lie flat and elevate the hips with a pillow for 30 minutes at a time, 3-4 times a day.
Reply Date: 2017/08/14
More Info
Pelvic tilt, particularly posterior pelvic tilt, can significantly impact sexual function and comfort during intercourse. When the pelvis tilts backward, it can alter the alignment of the vagina and uterus, potentially leading to discomfort or pain during sexual activity. This is particularly relevant for individuals who experience painful intercourse, known medically as dyspareunia.
In your case, the posterior pelvic tilt may indeed be contributing to the pain you experience during intercourse. This condition can lead to a shorter vaginal canal, as the angle of the pelvis affects the orientation of the vagina. Additionally, if the pelvic floor muscles are tight or imbalanced, it can create further discomfort during penetration, whether it be from a penis or fingers. The sensation of cramping or being pinched that you describe may be a result of muscle tension or spasms in the pelvic floor, which can be exacerbated by anxiety or discomfort during intercourse.
The relationship between pelvic tilt and sexual pain is complex. A posterior pelvic tilt can lead to a more acute angle at the vaginal entrance, which may make penetration more uncomfortable. Furthermore, if the posterior pelvic tilt is associated with a retroverted uterus (where the uterus tilts backward instead of forward), this can also contribute to discomfort during sex. The retroverted uterus can press against the rectum or other structures, leading to pain during deep penetration.
To address these issues, your healthcare provider's recommendation to explore different sexual positions is a good starting point. Positions that allow for shallower penetration or those that provide more control over the depth of penetration may help alleviate discomfort. Additionally, practicing yoga or pelvic floor exercises can be beneficial. These activities can help strengthen and relax the pelvic floor muscles, improving overall pelvic alignment and potentially reducing pain.
Incorporating pelvic floor physical therapy can also be an effective approach. A specialized therapist can provide targeted exercises to help strengthen weak muscles and relax tight ones, addressing any imbalances that may be contributing to your pain. They can also teach you techniques for relaxation and breathing that can help reduce anxiety during intercourse.
It's essential to communicate openly with your partner about your discomfort, as this can help create a more supportive environment during sexual activity. Additionally, using lubrication can help reduce friction and discomfort during penetration, making the experience more enjoyable.
If the pain persists despite these interventions, it may be worthwhile to revisit your healthcare provider for further evaluation. They may consider additional diagnostic tests to rule out any underlying conditions that could be contributing to your symptoms, such as endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory disease.
In summary, posterior pelvic tilt and retroverted uterus can indeed impact sexual comfort and function. By exploring different positions, engaging in pelvic floor exercises, and potentially seeking physical therapy, you can work towards alleviating the pain you experience during intercourse. Always consult with your healthcare provider for personalized advice and treatment options tailored to your specific situation.
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