Can I get pregnant?
Doctor, I would like to ask a question.
My girlfriend and I were intimate at the end of May, but there was only external contact with her labia.
After that, she experienced abnormal bleeding, but pregnancy tests have all come back negative.
Her menstrual period was delayed until June 28, lasting from June 28 to July 4, and in August it was from August 2 to August 8.
Now she says that her flow in September is very light.
Is it possible that she is pregnant? If so, when would be the best time to take a pregnancy test?
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/09/09
Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, if there was no sexual activity in August, the chances of pregnancy are low.
It is always best to take preventive measures before engaging in sexual activity, and one should not rely on the calendar method for fertility awareness.
If your period is late by more than a week, it is advisable to consult a gynecologist.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2017/09/09
More Info
When considering the possibility of pregnancy, it is essential to understand the timing of sexual activity, menstrual cycles, and the symptoms that may indicate pregnancy. In your case, you mentioned engaging in intimate contact with your girlfriend at the end of May, followed by an irregular menstrual period in June and a lighter flow in September. Let's break down the factors involved to assess the likelihood of pregnancy and the appropriate timing for testing.
Firstly, it is important to note that pregnancy can occur if sperm comes into contact with the vaginal area, even if there is no penetration. However, the risk of pregnancy from external genital contact is significantly lower than from intercourse where ejaculation occurs inside the vagina. Since you indicated that there was no ejaculation, the chances of pregnancy are reduced, but not entirely eliminated.
Your girlfriend's menstrual cycle is also a crucial factor. You mentioned that her period was delayed until June 28, which suggests that she may have experienced a late ovulation or other factors affecting her cycle. A typical menstrual cycle ranges from 21 to 35 days, with ovulation occurring approximately 14 days before the next period. If her cycle is irregular or if she has experienced stress, hormonal changes, or other health issues, this could lead to variations in her menstrual flow.
Regarding the lighter menstrual flow in September, it is essential to consider that changes in menstrual patterns can occur for various reasons, including hormonal fluctuations, stress, changes in weight, or other underlying health conditions. A lighter period does not automatically indicate pregnancy, especially if she has had negative pregnancy tests.
As for testing for pregnancy, the best time to take a home pregnancy test is typically after a missed period. Since your girlfriend's last period started on August 2, if her cycle is regular, she would expect her next period around September 2. If she misses her period or experiences a significant change in her cycle, it would be advisable to take a pregnancy test at that time. Home pregnancy tests are most accurate when taken after the first day of a missed period, as they measure the hormone hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin), which is produced during pregnancy.
If your girlfriend continues to experience irregular periods or if there are any concerns about her menstrual health, it would be wise for her to consult with a healthcare provider. They can perform a more sensitive blood test for pregnancy and evaluate any other potential issues contributing to her menstrual irregularities.
In summary, while there is a possibility of pregnancy from the contact you described, the likelihood is low, especially given the negative pregnancy tests and the timing of her menstrual cycles. If there are ongoing concerns about her menstrual health or if she experiences any unusual symptoms, seeking medical advice is the best course of action.
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