Suicidal ideation
Hello, how can I improve thoughts of wanting to end my life? Although I have never engaged in self-harm, I constantly have thoughts of not knowing why I am alive and wanting to leave this world.
Despite having taken SSRIs for about two years and attempting therapy several times, I still feel that death might be a form of relief.
How can I help myself? Thank you.
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/05/24
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: We live not only for ourselves but also to care for ourselves and those we care about.
Learning, growing, engaging in positive interactions with others, and helping others can all add meaning to our lives.
Adhering to medication and participating in psychological counseling are effective treatments for depression.
It is advisable to be very patient and to cooperate well with your physician while waiting for gradual recovery from depression.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2018/05/24
More Info
Overcoming suicidal thoughts is a complex and deeply personal journey, often requiring a multifaceted approach that includes professional help, self-care strategies, and support from loved ones. It’s commendable that you are seeking ways to address these feelings, and I want to emphasize that you are not alone in this struggle. Many people experience similar thoughts, and there are effective ways to find hope and healing.
Seeking Professional Help
First and foremost, it is crucial to continue seeking professional help. Since you have been on SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) for about two years and have engaged in therapy, it might be worth discussing your current treatment plan with your healthcare provider. Sometimes, medications may need to be adjusted, or a different therapeutic approach may be more effective. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), for example, has been shown to be particularly effective for depression and suicidal thoughts.
Additionally, if you feel that your current therapist is not meeting your needs, consider seeking a second opinion or finding a therapist who specializes in suicidal ideation or depression. The therapeutic relationship is vital, and finding someone you connect with can make a significant difference.
Building a Support Network
In addition to professional help, building a support network is essential. This can include friends, family, or support groups where you can share your feelings and experiences. Sometimes, just talking about what you’re going through can alleviate some of the burdens. If you feel comfortable, reach out to someone you trust and let them know what you’re experiencing. You might be surprised by how supportive and understanding they can be.
Self-Care Strategies
Self-care is another critical component in managing suicidal thoughts. Here are some strategies that may help:
1. Establish a Routine: Having a daily routine can provide structure and a sense of normalcy. Try to include activities that you enjoy or that give you a sense of accomplishment, even if they are small.
2. Physical Activity: Regular exercise has been shown to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. This could be a walk, yoga, or any physical activity that you enjoy.
3. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help reduce anxiety and improve your overall emotional well-being. Apps like Headspace or Calm can guide you through mindfulness exercises.
4. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a powerful way to process emotions. It can also help you identify triggers for your suicidal thoughts and develop coping strategies.
5. Limit Alcohol and Substance Use: Alcohol and drugs can exacerbate feelings of depression and anxiety. Try to limit or avoid these substances, especially during difficult times.
6. Engage in Meaningful Activities: Find activities that give you a sense of purpose or joy. This could be volunteering, pursuing a hobby, or engaging in creative outlets like art or music.
Finding Meaning and Hope
Finding meaning in life can be challenging, especially when you’re feeling hopeless. However, it’s important to remember that life can change, and there are possibilities for joy and fulfillment ahead. Reflect on what brings you joy or what you are passionate about, even if those feelings seem distant right now. Setting small, achievable goals can help you regain a sense of control and purpose.
Crisis Resources
If you ever feel overwhelmed or in immediate danger, please reach out for help. In the U.S., the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK) is available 24/7 to provide support and assistance. You can also text “HELLO” to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line.
Conclusion
In conclusion, overcoming suicidal thoughts is a journey that requires patience, support, and active engagement in your mental health care. It’s essential to continue seeking professional help, build a support network, and implement self-care strategies. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help, and taking small steps towards healing can lead to significant changes over time. You are worthy of support and deserve to find hope and meaning in your life.
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