Normal Responses: Prostate Questions and Concerns - Urology

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Hello doctor, every time I kiss my girlfriend, I experience an erection and a small amount of fluid is released.
I want to know if this is normal.
Do I need to masturbate to ejaculate to prevent the semen from flowing back? I heard from my friends that if there is an erection, I must masturbate.
I'm really confused about whether I need to be concerned or if this is a normal phenomenon.

Michael, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/09/14

Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology


It may be secretions from the urethral glands, not necessarily semen; further monitoring is needed.

Reply Date: 2018/09/14

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When it comes to understanding normal responses related to the prostate and sexual arousal, it’s important to recognize that the human body can exhibit a variety of reactions during intimate moments. The situation you described, where you experience an erection and the release of a small amount of fluid during kissing, is generally considered a normal physiological response.
During sexual arousal, the body undergoes several changes, including increased blood flow to the penis, which leads to an erection. The fluid you mentioned is likely pre-ejaculatory fluid, also known as pre-cum. This fluid is produced by the Cowper's glands and serves to lubricate the urethra and neutralize any acidity in the urethra before ejaculation. It is completely normal for this fluid to be released during arousal, even if ejaculation does not occur.

Regarding your concern about whether you need to engage in masturbation to prevent retrograde ejaculation (where semen flows backward into the bladder instead of out through the penis), it’s important to clarify that this is not a common concern for most individuals. Retrograde ejaculation can occur due to certain medical conditions or as a side effect of some medications, but it is not typically a result of sexual arousal or the act of kissing. If you are not experiencing any discomfort or unusual symptoms, there is generally no need to worry about this.

Your confusion about whether you should engage in masturbation is understandable, but it is not necessary for everyone. Masturbation is a normal and healthy sexual activity that can help relieve sexual tension, but it is not a requirement. If you feel comfortable and satisfied with your sexual experiences, there is no need to feel pressured to engage in masturbation simply because you are experiencing arousal.

If you find that your experiences are causing you anxiety or if you have further questions about your sexual health, it may be beneficial to speak with a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized advice and reassurance based on your specific circumstances.
In summary, the responses you are experiencing during intimate moments are normal, and there is no need to engage in masturbation unless you feel it is necessary for your own comfort or sexual health. Open communication with your partner about your feelings and experiences can also enhance your intimate relationship and alleviate any concerns you may have. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and seeking information and support is a positive step towards understanding your body and its responses.

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