Normal Genital Appearance: When to Seek Medical Advice - Urology

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The appearance of the genitalia has not changed?


Dear Dr.
Chen,
Hello, I am almost 30 years old, but the appearance of my genitals is still the same as when I was a child.
However, I can achieve normal erections, ejaculate, and urinate without any issues in my daily life.
Despite this, I feel a bit insecure and am hesitant to be open with my girlfriend when I am not aroused.
Do I need to seek medical attention?

A-Liang, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/09/24

Dr. Chen Jiansheng reply Urology


No need.

Reply Date: 2018/09/24

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Dear Patient,
Thank you for reaching out with your concerns regarding the appearance of your genitalia. It’s completely understandable to feel self-conscious about your body, especially when it comes to intimate relationships. However, it's important to remember that variations in genital appearance are quite common and can be influenced by a variety of factors, including genetics, hormonal levels, and individual development.

From what you’ve described, it seems that you are able to achieve normal erections, ejaculate, and urinate without any issues. These are key indicators of healthy sexual function. The fact that you are experiencing no physical problems suggests that there may not be a medical issue at hand. However, if the appearance of your genitalia is causing you significant distress or impacting your self-esteem and relationships, it may be worth considering a consultation with a healthcare professional.

In terms of when to seek medical advice, here are some guidelines:
1. Physical Changes: If you notice any sudden changes in the appearance of your genitalia, such as swelling, discoloration, or the development of lumps or sores, it is advisable to seek medical attention. These could be signs of an underlying condition that needs to be addressed.

2. Pain or Discomfort: If you experience any pain, discomfort, or difficulty during sexual activity or urination, this is another reason to consult a healthcare provider.

3. Psychological Impact: If your concerns about your genital appearance are leading to anxiety, depression, or significant self-esteem issues, talking to a mental health professional or a urologist can be beneficial. They can provide support and help you work through these feelings.

4. Sexual Health: Regular check-ups with a healthcare provider can help ensure that you are maintaining good sexual health. If you have any concerns about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or other sexual health issues, it’s important to discuss these with a doctor.

5. Education and Reassurance: Sometimes, simply having a conversation with a healthcare provider can provide reassurance. They can explain what is considered normal and help you understand your body better.

In conclusion, while your current situation does not seem to warrant immediate medical attention, it is always a good idea to consult with a healthcare professional if you have concerns about your body or sexual health. They can provide you with the necessary information and support to help you feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin. Remember, open communication with your partner is also crucial; many people appreciate honesty and vulnerability, which can strengthen your relationship.

Take care, and don’t hesitate to reach out for help if you feel it’s needed.

Best regards.

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