Improving erectile dysfunction?
After watching many Q&As, I would like to ask some questions.
I often watch adult films for masturbation, and recently I've noticed a decrease in my erectile ability; it doesn't feel as firm as before.
Sometimes, during masturbation, I experience a loss of erection and need to use my hand to regain it (in the past, just watching adult films would make me erect without needing to use my hand).
I have no bad habits and work out regularly three to four times a week.
Therefore, I decided to stop watching adult films for one to two months to see if it improves.
I would like to ask if it's okay to masturbate during the period of abstaining from adult films? After this period, should I completely avoid adult films, or is it acceptable to watch them occasionally? Lastly, are there any other considerations I should be aware of? Thank you, doctor!
Mark, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/10/15
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello, it is important to clarify the relationship between penile erection, masturbation, and adult films.
Watching adult films can provide a certain level of sensory stimulation; however, there is no direct correlation between viewing adult films and achieving an erection or engaging in masturbation.
In other words, adult films serve merely as a source of sensory stimulation, and whether they influence erection or are part of the masturbation process varies from person to person.
Reply Date: 2018/10/15
More Info
Improving erectile function, especially in the context of pornography consumption, is a topic that has garnered significant attention in recent years. Many individuals report experiencing erectile difficulties linked to their habits surrounding pornography and masturbation. Your concerns about decreased erectile rigidity and the need for manual stimulation during masturbation are not uncommon among those who frequently consume adult content.
Understanding the Impact of Pornography
Research suggests that excessive consumption of pornography can lead to a phenomenon known as "porn-induced erectile dysfunction" (PIED). This condition arises when the brain becomes desensitized to sexual stimuli due to the constant exposure to highly stimulating and unrealistic scenarios presented in pornography. Over time, this can alter the brain's reward system, making it more challenging to achieve arousal and maintain an erection in real-life situations or even during masturbation without the aid of pornography.
The Decision to Abstain from Pornography
Your decision to abstain from watching pornography for one to two months is a proactive step that many find beneficial. During this period, it is essential to focus on re-establishing a healthy relationship with your sexuality. Here are some tips to consider:
1. Masturbation During Abstinence: It is generally acceptable to masturbate during your period of abstaining from pornography. However, try to do so without the aid of visual stimuli. This can help you reconnect with your body and understand what genuinely arouses you without the influence of pornographic material.
2. Gradual Reintroduction: After your abstinence period, you may wonder whether it is okay to watch pornography occasionally. The key is moderation. If you choose to reintroduce pornography into your life, do so mindfully. Pay attention to how it affects your arousal and erectile function. If you notice a return of erectile difficulties, it may be wise to reconsider your consumption habits.
3. Focus on Real-Life Intimacy: Engaging in real-life sexual experiences can help retrain your brain's response to sexual stimuli. This includes spending time with a partner, exploring intimacy, and focusing on emotional connections rather than solely physical arousal.
4. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Continue your regular exercise routine, as physical fitness plays a crucial role in sexual health. Additionally, consider incorporating a balanced diet, managing stress, and ensuring adequate sleep, all of which contribute to overall well-being and sexual function.
5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Anxiety and stress can exacerbate erectile difficulties. Practicing mindfulness, meditation, or relaxation techniques can help reduce performance anxiety and improve your sexual experience.
6. Seek Professional Help: If you continue to experience erectile difficulties despite making these changes, consider consulting a healthcare professional or a therapist specializing in sexual health. They can provide personalized guidance and support.
Conclusion
In summary, your approach to reducing pornography consumption and focusing on your sexual health is commendable. Abstaining from pornography for a period while allowing for masturbation without visual stimuli can help you regain sensitivity and improve erectile function. Remember to listen to your body and be mindful of how your habits affect your sexual health. If challenges persist, do not hesitate to seek professional advice. Your sexual health is an integral part of your overall well-being, and taking steps to improve it is a positive move forward.
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