Managing Health Anxiety: Overcoming the Urge to Self-Check - Psychiatry

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Hello, Doctor.
I have been experiencing health anxiety for several years, constantly worrying about whether something will develop in my throat.
I have seen doctors who have assured me that everything is normal, but I can't shake the fear that my throat might change in the future.
I often find myself looking in the mirror to check my throat and become paranoid, thinking that it looks bigger or smaller.
For the past six months, I have been seeing a psychologist, who suggested that I seek counseling.
He mentioned that I exhibit some obsessive-compulsive tendencies, using mirror checks to alleviate my anxiety, but he believes I am not at a point where medication is necessary.

Later, I consulted a therapist who thinks my primary issue is anxiety.
She believes that during my upbringing, I did not adequately address my own feelings, which has led me to compensate through self-checking.
She does not consider me to have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), as she feels that OCD is more severe.
Through counseling, I am getting to know myself better.
I have realized that my urge to check my throat often coincides with certain stressful events, which aligns with what my therapist has said.
I gradually understand that my health anxiety is triggered by these events.

On the other hand, I have researched compulsive behaviors online and feel that I relate to some of them.
Consequently, I have been trying to live by not reacting when I feel the urge to check.
When I feel the need to look at my throat, I try to avoid the mirror.
Gradually, I have reduced my mirror checks from 50 times a day to once every five or six days.
However, it can still be frustrating when I find myself unable to control the urge.
Recently, I managed to go ten days without checking my throat, and I think about it less often.
However, after a minor argument with my mother yesterday, I suddenly felt the urge to look in the mirror, and my throat, which I hadn’t seen in ten days, seemed unfamiliar.
I noticed some redness and swelling, which I rationally know is an exaggerated perception, but emotionally, I feel defeated and powerless.
Doctor, do you think my situation is suitable for the non-reactive approach? When I feel the urge to check, should I focus on other activities to train myself not to give in? Is it normal to experience setbacks, like failing after maintaining ten days of progress, and potentially facing a 15-day setback next time? Or will I always be entangled in these emotions? Some mornings, I wake up feeling like I have to face another challenging day, which is exhausting.
However, I am determined to actively address these emotions.
Please help me, Doctor.

W, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/11/14

Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry


Hello W: You have worked very hard and have done well; don't be too hard on yourself.
Most people do experience some relapses during the process of change, but your frequency has significantly decreased, indicating that your efforts are effective.
I suggest maintaining patience and perseverance; occasional minor relapses are nothing to worry about.
Wishing you all the best.

Reply Date: 2018/11/14

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Managing health anxiety, particularly the urge to self-check, can be a challenging journey, especially when it becomes a compulsive behavior. Your experience of frequently checking your throat and feeling anxious about potential health issues is a common manifestation of health anxiety, often referred to as hypochondria. It’s great to hear that you’ve sought help from both a psychologist and a therapist, as this is a crucial step toward managing your anxiety.

Firstly, it’s important to understand that health anxiety often stems from a combination of psychological and emotional factors. The urge to self-check can be a way to seek reassurance, but it often leads to increased anxiety rather than relief. This cycle can be frustrating, as you’ve experienced. The more you check, the more you may find things to worry about, which can reinforce the need to check again. This behavior is often driven by a fear of the unknown and a desire for control over your health.

Your therapist's suggestion to practice non-reactivity is a valuable strategy. This approach encourages you to acknowledge your thoughts and feelings without acting on them. When you feel the urge to check your throat, instead of giving in to that impulse, you can try to redirect your attention to another activity. This could be anything from engaging in a hobby, exercising, or practicing mindfulness techniques. The goal is to create a mental space where the urge to check does not dominate your thoughts.

It’s also essential to recognize that setbacks are a normal part of the recovery process. You mentioned that after a disagreement with your mother, you felt compelled to check your throat again. This highlights how emotional triggers can influence your anxiety levels. It’s okay to have moments where you feel like you’ve regressed; what’s important is how you respond to those moments. Instead of viewing them as failures, try to see them as opportunities to learn more about your triggers and how to manage them better in the future.

Maintaining a journal can be an effective tool in this process. Documenting your feelings, the situations that trigger your anxiety, and your responses can help you identify patterns over time. You might notice that certain situations or emotions lead to an increase in your urge to check. Understanding these triggers can empower you to develop strategies to cope with them.

Moreover, practicing self-compassion is crucial. It’s easy to be hard on yourself when you feel like you’ve failed to manage your anxiety. Remember that overcoming health anxiety is a process, and it’s okay to have ups and downs. Celebrate your progress, such as the ten days you went without checking, and remind yourself that each step forward, no matter how small, is a victory.

In terms of the frequency of your self-checking, it’s reasonable to expect that as you continue to practice non-reactivity, the intervals between checks will gradually increase. The goal is not to eliminate the urge entirely but to reduce its power over you. Over time, you may find that you can go longer without checking, and when you do feel the urge, it may not be as overwhelming.

Lastly, if you find that your anxiety continues to interfere significantly with your daily life, it may be beneficial to discuss the possibility of medication with your healthcare provider. While therapy is a powerful tool, sometimes medication can help manage the symptoms more effectively, allowing you to engage more fully in therapeutic practices.

In summary, managing health anxiety involves a combination of understanding your triggers, practicing non-reactivity, and being kind to yourself throughout the process. It’s a journey, and with continued effort and support, you can find ways to reduce the hold that health anxiety has on your life. Keep focusing on your progress, and remember that seeking help is a sign of strength.

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