Easily worried and feeling anxious?
Hello, doctor.
I would like to seek ways to improve my emotional well-being.
I tend to magnify small physical issues, which makes me very anxious and tense.
I constantly find myself searching online for various articles and identifying with the symptoms, which frightens me and keeps me in a state of high anxiety, making it difficult to concentrate on my tasks.
I have consulted doctors whenever I experience symptoms, and they have assured me that there are no issues, but I still feel fearful and depressed.
As I age, I worry about the various health problems that may arise, and I am also concerned about my family’s health.
The thought of potentially losing them and facing death is overwhelming, and it often brings me to tears.
I wonder if this is exacerbated by the pressure I feel from planning for the future over the past couple of years, which has been very stressful and makes me fear that I won’t be able to achieve my goals.
I have been in this emotional state for several months now, and I find it hard to focus on tasks, constantly feeling these worries.
It’s difficult to pull myself out of this mindset and regain a sense of happiness, positivity, and optimism.
Y, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/03/18
Dr. Huang Xiaoxian reply Psychiatry
Dear Yenning Chen,
You mentioned that you are feeling very anxious and depressed, and that you are experiencing many uncontrollable and irrational thoughts.
You are also worried about whether there is something wrong with your body.
These symptoms are similar to those of typical anxiety and depressive disorders.
I recommend that you seek an evaluation from a psychiatrist, who can provide medication treatment and psychological counseling to help improve your symptoms.
Wishing you all the best!
Dr.
Hsiu-Hsien Huang
Reply Date: 2019/03/18
More Info
Overcoming anxiety can be a challenging journey, especially when it feels like worry and fear are constantly looming over you. From your description, it seems that you are experiencing a heightened state of anxiety, particularly related to health concerns and the fear of losing loved ones. This is not uncommon, especially in today's fast-paced world where information is readily available, and it can often lead to excessive worry and even panic.
First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid. Anxiety can manifest in various ways, including physical symptoms, obsessive thoughts about health, and an overwhelming sense of dread about the future. The fact that you've sought medical attention and received reassurance is a positive step, but it can be difficult to internalize that reassurance when anxiety takes hold.
Here are several strategies that may help you manage your anxiety and find a sense of peace:
1. Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness can help ground you in the present moment, reducing the tendency to ruminate on potential future problems. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided meditation can help calm your mind. Apps like Headspace or Calm can provide structured guidance.
2. Limit Information Consumption: While it’s natural to seek information when you’re anxious, excessive research can lead to more worry. Try to limit the time you spend searching for health-related information online. Set specific times for checking information and stick to them.
3. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This therapeutic approach is effective for anxiety. It involves identifying negative thought patterns and replacing them with more balanced thoughts. A therapist can guide you through this process, helping you to challenge irrational fears and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
4. Physical Activity: Regular exercise is a powerful tool for reducing anxiety. It releases endorphins, which can improve your mood and help you feel more relaxed. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. Activities like walking, jogging, or yoga can be particularly beneficial.
5. Establish a Routine: Creating a daily routine can provide structure and a sense of control. Include time for work, relaxation, and activities that bring you joy. This can help you feel more grounded and less overwhelmed.
6. Connect with Others: Sharing your feelings with trusted friends or family members can provide emotional support. Sometimes, just talking about your worries can help alleviate them. If you feel comfortable, consider joining a support group where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through.
7. Professional Help: If your anxiety persists and significantly impacts your daily life, consider seeking help from a mental health professional. They can provide therapy, medication, or a combination of both tailored to your needs.
8. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions. It can help you identify triggers for your anxiety and reflect on your worries in a more structured way.
9. Focus on What You Can Control: It’s easy to become overwhelmed by thoughts of the future and things beyond your control. Try to focus on what you can influence in your life, such as your daily habits, your reactions to stress, and your self-care practices.
10. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Understand that it’s okay to feel anxious and that you’re not alone in this struggle. Treat yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend in a similar situation.
In conclusion, overcoming anxiety is a process that takes time and patience. By implementing these strategies and seeking support when needed, you can gradually find ways to manage your worries and reclaim a sense of peace in your life. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help, and taking that step is a sign of strength.
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