Premature ejaculation issues?
Hello, Doctor Du: I would like to ask you about something.
During sexual intercourse, I tend to ejaculate very quickly during the first attempt (within about a minute).
After waiting for a while and being able to achieve an erection again (after more than half an hour), I can engage in a second sexual encounter without feeling the urge to ejaculate for a long time.
The frequency of sexual activity is about once a month, and this pattern occurs every time.
What could be the reason for this? How can I improve this situation?
Ja, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/04/06
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: If ejaculation occurs within the first minute of the first sexual intercourse, it is considered premature ejaculation.
There are many possible causes, and it is recommended to consult a urologist at a hospital.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2019/04/06
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by the inability to delay ejaculation during sexual intercourse, often occurring within one minute of penetration. This condition can lead to distress, anxiety, and dissatisfaction for both partners. Understanding the causes and potential solutions for PE is essential for improving sexual health and overall relationship satisfaction.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can significantly contribute to PE. Men who are overly concerned about their sexual performance or who have had negative sexual experiences may find themselves ejaculating prematurely.
2. Biological Factors: Certain biological factors, such as hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and sensitivity of the glans penis, can also play a role. For instance, an increased sensitivity of the penis may lead to quicker ejaculation.
3. Relationship Issues: Sometimes, problems within a relationship can contribute to sexual dysfunction. Lack of communication, unresolved conflicts, or emotional disconnect can all impact sexual performance.
4. Medical Conditions: Certain medical conditions, such as prostatitis or thyroid problems, can also lead to PE. Additionally, some medications may have side effects that affect sexual performance.
5. Lifestyle Factors: Alcohol consumption, drug use, and lack of physical fitness can also contribute to sexual dysfunction, including PE.
Solutions and Treatment Options
1. Behavioral Techniques:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stopping sexual stimulation before ejaculation and then starting again once the urge has passed. This can help increase control over ejaculation.
- Squeeze Technique: This method involves squeezing the base of the penis when the man feels he is about to ejaculate, which can help delay ejaculation.
2. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises like Kegels can improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that control urination.
3. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can reduce sensitivity and help delay ejaculation. However, it is important to use these products as directed and consult a healthcare provider if unsure.
4. Counseling and Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to PE, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence.
5. Medication: In some cases, doctors may prescribe medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which can help delay ejaculation. Other options may include topical anesthetics or other medications specifically designed for PE.
6. Communication with Partner: Open communication with your partner about sexual preferences, desires, and concerns can help reduce anxiety and improve the sexual experience for both partners.
Conclusion
Premature ejaculation is a treatable condition, and understanding its causes can help in finding effective solutions. If you are experiencing PE, it is advisable to consult with a healthcare provider who specializes in sexual health. They can provide a thorough evaluation and recommend appropriate treatment options tailored to your specific situation. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men face similar challenges. With the right approach, it is possible to improve sexual performance and enhance intimacy in your relationship.
Similar Q&A
Understanding Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Solutions Beyond Medication
It is common for individuals to experience a difference in ejaculation timing between masturbation and sexual intercourse. This can be due to various factors, including anxiety, arousal levels, and the physical sensations involved in each activity. To improve this situation, as...
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not exactly the same. If your sexual intercourse, as you mentioned, involves minimal thrusting before ejaculation, this is considered premature ejaculation, and you should seek medical attention from a urologist. What you can do on y...[Read More] Understanding Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Solutions Beyond Medication
Effective Solutions for Managing Premature Ejaculation: A Comprehensive Guide
Hello Doctor, I have a problem with premature ejaculation. I previously consulted a doctor who suggested self-control techniques, and I also tried using antidepressants, but the results were not very satisfactory. I really want to find a fundamental solution to this frustrating i...
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
Hello: Generally, treatment focuses on medication and psychotherapy, along with attention to physical and mental well-being, balanced nutrition, and regular exercise. If you have any concerns, please visit the outpatient clinic for further examination and treatment. Thank you![Read More] Effective Solutions for Managing Premature Ejaculation: A Comprehensive Guide
Effective Solutions for Premature Ejaculation: Tips and Treatments
I am married and experienced excessive masturbation in my youth, which has led to premature ejaculation. During intercourse, I can only last about 1 to 2 minutes before ejaculation. I am unsure of any methods to extend the duration of intercourse. My wife has expressed some compl...
Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology
Oh! Men really have it tough. When a wife complains about her husband's performance, it just gets worse; he becomes too anxious! Premature ejaculation is not related to past habits of masturbation during youth. Instead, learning to control ejaculation through mutual masturba...[Read More] Effective Solutions for Premature Ejaculation: Tips and Treatments
Understanding and Managing Premature Ejaculation: Tips for Improvement
Experiencing ejaculation in less than 20 seconds can be a source of frustration, especially if you feel unable to control it due to heightened sensitivity. It's important to know that this condition, often referred to as premature ejaculation, is common and can be improved. ...
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
Hello: The causes of premature ejaculation are mainly psychological factors or pathological conditions. It is recommended that you visit our urology department for further examination. Thank you![Read More] Understanding and Managing Premature Ejaculation: Tips for Improvement
Related FAQ
(Urology)
Ejaculation(Urology)
Erectile Dysfunction(Urology)
Masturbation(Urology)
Pain After Ejaculation(Urology)
Semen Analysis(Urology)
Infertility(Urology)
Epididymis(Urology)
Sexual Climax(Urology)
Inadequate Engorgement(Urology)