Premature ejaculation
I am married and experienced excessive masturbation in my youth, which has led to premature ejaculation.
During intercourse, I can only last about 1 to 2 minutes before ejaculation.
I am unsure of any methods to extend the duration of intercourse.
My wife has expressed some complaints about this.
Is it necessary to see a doctor to resolve this issue?
Jimmy, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2001/02/07
Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology
Oh! Men really have it tough.
When a wife complains about her husband's performance, it just gets worse; he becomes too anxious! Premature ejaculation is not related to past habits of masturbation during youth.
Instead, learning to control ejaculation through mutual masturbation with the wife can be a constructive approach.
There are plenty of related books available in bookstores nowadays for reference.
Sexual intimacy is something that requires learning, and encouraging and praising each other's performance can definitely lead to desired outcomes.
Keep it up!
Reply Date: 2001/02/07
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common issue that many men face, and it can indeed affect relationships and self-esteem. Fortunately, there are several effective solutions and treatments available to help manage this condition. Here’s a comprehensive overview of the options you can consider:
Behavioral Techniques
1. Start-Stop Technique: This method involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. Repeating this process can help you gain better control over your ejaculation.
2. Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, this technique involves squeezing the base of the penis when you feel close to ejaculation. This can help delay ejaculation and prolong the sexual experience.
3. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises like Kegels can improve control over ejaculation. To perform Kegels, identify the muscles you use to stop urination, contract them for a few seconds, and then relax. Aim for several sets throughout the day.
Psychological Counseling
Sometimes, premature ejaculation can be linked to anxiety or psychological factors. Speaking with a therapist or counselor can help address any underlying issues, such as performance anxiety or relationship concerns. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective in helping men manage anxiety related to sexual performance.
Medical Treatments
1. Topical Anesthetics: Over-the-counter creams or sprays containing numbing agents (like lidocaine or benzocaine) can be applied to the penis to reduce sensitivity and delay ejaculation. It’s important to follow the instructions carefully to avoid excessive numbness.
2. Prescription Medications: Certain antidepressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), have been found to delay ejaculation as a side effect. Medications like paroxetine, sertraline, and fluoxetine may be prescribed by a healthcare provider.
3. Hormonal Treatments: In some cases, hormonal imbalances may contribute to premature ejaculation. A healthcare provider can evaluate hormone levels and recommend appropriate treatments if necessary.
Lifestyle Changes
1. Healthy Lifestyle: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can improve overall sexual function. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can enhance your physical and mental well-being.
2. Limit Alcohol and Avoid Drugs: Excessive alcohol consumption and recreational drug use can negatively impact sexual performance. Moderation is key.
3. Open Communication with Your Partner: Discussing your concerns with your partner can alleviate anxiety and improve intimacy. Understanding and support from your partner can make a significant difference.
When to See a Doctor
While many men experience premature ejaculation at some point, if it becomes a persistent issue affecting your quality of life or relationship, it’s advisable to consult a healthcare professional. A doctor can provide a thorough evaluation, rule out any underlying medical conditions, and recommend appropriate treatments tailored to your needs.
Conclusion
In summary, premature ejaculation is a manageable condition with various treatment options available. From behavioral techniques and psychological counseling to medical treatments and lifestyle changes, there are effective strategies to help you extend the duration of sexual activity and improve your overall sexual health. It’s important to approach this issue with openness and seek professional guidance if needed. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and many men have successfully overcome similar challenges.
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