Questions about improving premature ejaculation?
Hello, Director Du.
I have a problem with premature ejaculation and would like to improve it through self-training.
I have some questions to ask you:
1.
I read online that the squeeze technique, which involves squeezing the frenulum and the area around the corona with three fingers, can help improve premature ejaculation.
Is this method truly effective?
2.
When I am not erect, my glans is not exposed.
I have heard that keeping the glans exposed can reduce sensitivity and help improve premature ejaculation, but I also read that prolonged exposure of the glans to air can lead to keratinization, which may eventually cause erectile dysfunction.
Should I keep my foreskin retracted to expose the glans?
3.
I have an anterior pelvic tilt issue.
Can this condition potentially lead to premature ejaculation?
4.
There is a lot of information online suggesting that Kegel exercises can effectively improve premature ejaculation, but I have also seen some articles claiming that Kegel exercises may accumulate more tension and actually accelerate ejaculation.
Should I practice Kegel exercises or not?
I sincerely appreciate your guidance on these four questions.
Thank you.
Zao Xie Zhe, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/09/20
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Premature ejaculation requires a physician's diagnosis, and there are currently medications available for treatment.
I would like to offer some insights.
If premature ejaculation has become a regular occurrence, it is essential to seek evaluation from a urologist at a hospital.
If it happens occasionally, you might want to pay attention to your lifestyle, avoiding overly spicy or greasy foods, engaging in moderate exercise, and not overindulging in masturbation.
The methods you mentioned are merely training techniques, and their effectiveness can vary from person to person; sometimes they may seem effective, while other times they may not.
Therefore, you can give them a try, but be careful not to overdo it or use over-the-counter medications.
However, if it is persistent premature ejaculation, it is best to seek medical attention.
The same applies after circumcision (when the glans is exposed); outpatient experiences also show varied responses.
It is challenging to find a method that works for everyone.
Patience is key.
As for the relationship between pelvic tilt and premature ejaculation, it is difficult to establish a connection.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2019/09/20
More Info
Managing premature ejaculation (PE) can be a complex issue, but there are several effective techniques and strategies that can help improve the situation. Let's address your questions one by one, providing insights based on current medical understanding and practices.
1. The Squeeze Technique: The squeeze technique, which involves applying pressure to the base of the penis or the area around the glans (the head of the penis), can indeed be effective for some men. This method aims to reduce arousal and delay ejaculation. When done correctly, it can help men gain better control over their ejaculation timing. However, it requires practice and communication with your partner to be effective. It's important to note that while this technique may work for some, it may not be a universal solution, and individual results can vary.
2. Exposure of the Glans: Keeping the glans exposed (if you are uncircumcised) may help in reducing sensitivity over time, but it is essential to approach this with caution. Prolonged exposure to air can lead to keratinization, which is the thickening of the skin, potentially leading to decreased sensitivity. However, this does not necessarily lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). If you choose to keep the glans exposed, ensure that you maintain proper hygiene to avoid irritation or infection. If you experience any discomfort or changes, it may be wise to consult a healthcare professional.
3. Pelvic Tilt and PE: There is some evidence to suggest that pelvic alignment can influence sexual function. A forward pelvic tilt may contribute to tension in the pelvic floor muscles, which could potentially affect ejaculation control. However, the relationship between pelvic tilt and PE is not fully understood and may vary from person to person. If you suspect that your pelvic alignment is affecting your sexual health, consider consulting a physical therapist who specializes in pelvic health for personalized advice and exercises.
4. Kegel Exercises: Kegel exercises, which involve strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, can be beneficial for many men experiencing PE. Strengthening these muscles can help improve control over ejaculation. While some sources may suggest that Kegel exercises could lead to increased tension and potentially faster ejaculation, this is not a universally accepted view. Most experts agree that when performed correctly, Kegel exercises can enhance pelvic floor strength and improve sexual function. Start with a few repetitions daily and gradually increase as you become more comfortable with the exercises.
In addition to these techniques, consider the following general strategies for managing premature ejaculation:
- Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Stress and anxiety can exacerbate PE. Practicing mindfulness, meditation, or relaxation techniques can help reduce anxiety related to sexual performance.
- Communication with Your Partner: Open communication with your partner about your concerns and experiences can foster a supportive environment, making it easier to explore different techniques together.
- Professional Help: If self-help strategies do not yield satisfactory results, consider seeking help from a healthcare provider or a sex therapist. They can offer tailored advice, behavioral therapies, or medications that may help.
In conclusion, managing premature ejaculation often requires a multifaceted approach that includes physical techniques, psychological strategies, and open communication. It's essential to find what works best for you and to be patient with the process. If you have ongoing concerns, do not hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional for further guidance.
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