Managing Unwanted Erections: Tips and Solutions for Men - Urology

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Recently, the doctor has been experiencing unexpected erections whenever he sees his girlfriend or goes to a hot spring with friends and encounters nudity.
He is concerned about feeling embarrassed if he has a physiological reaction again during the next hot spring outing with friends.
He is wondering if there are any methods or medications to help control this response.

Kevin, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/04/22

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: Young reactions should be similar; there is no specific method for prevention, only avoidance.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2019/04/22

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Managing unwanted erections can be a sensitive and sometimes embarrassing issue for many men. It's important to understand that experiencing erections in response to visual stimuli, such as seeing a naked person, is a normal physiological response. However, if these occurrences are frequent and cause discomfort or embarrassment, there are several strategies and considerations that can help manage this situation.


Understanding the Physiology
Erections are primarily controlled by the nervous system and can be triggered by various stimuli, including visual, tactile, and psychological factors. The process involves the release of nitric oxide, which increases blood flow to the penis, leading to an erection. This response can occur involuntarily, especially in situations that are sexually stimulating or when a man feels relaxed and comfortable.


Tips for Managing Unwanted Erections
1. Mental Techniques: One of the most effective ways to manage unwanted erections is through mental distraction. When you feel an erection coming on, try to think about something non-sexual or mundane. This could be a math problem, a work-related task, or even a memory that is not sexually stimulating.

2. Physical Techniques: Adjusting your physical position can help. If you are sitting, try crossing your legs or shifting your position to minimize the pressure on your groin area. If you are standing, discreetly repositioning your clothing or moving to a less conspicuous area can help.

3. Breathing Exercises: Deep breathing can help calm your body and reduce arousal. Focus on taking slow, deep breaths to help relax your mind and body.

4. Clothing Choices: Wearing looser-fitting clothing can help reduce the visibility of an erection and may also provide more comfort. Avoid tight underwear or pants that may accentuate the situation.

5. Engage in Physical Activity: If you find yourself in a situation where you are likely to experience an unwanted erection, consider engaging in some physical activity. This could be as simple as walking around or doing some light stretching, which can redirect blood flow and help alleviate the erection.

6. Medication: In some cases, if unwanted erections are frequent and problematic, consulting a healthcare provider may be beneficial. They can evaluate whether there are underlying medical conditions or hormonal imbalances contributing to the issue. In certain cases, medications that affect blood flow or hormonal levels may be prescribed, but this should be done under medical supervision.

7. Therapy and Counseling: If unwanted erections are causing significant distress or affecting your quality of life, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be helpful. They can provide strategies to manage anxiety and help you understand the psychological aspects of sexual arousal.


When to Seek Medical Advice
If unwanted erections are accompanied by pain, discomfort, or if they occur frequently without any apparent cause, it is advisable to seek medical advice. Conditions such as priapism (a prolonged and painful erection) or hormonal imbalances may require professional intervention. Additionally, if you find that your sexual function is being affected, a healthcare provider can help assess your overall sexual health and provide appropriate treatment options.


Conclusion
Unwanted erections are a common experience for many men and can often be managed with a combination of mental and physical strategies. Understanding the physiological basis for these responses can help reduce anxiety and embarrassment. If the issue persists or causes significant distress, consulting with a healthcare professional is recommended to explore potential underlying causes and treatment options. Remember, open communication with healthcare providers about sexual health is essential, and there is no need to feel embarrassed when seeking help.

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