Managing Unwanted Erections in Public: Tips and Solutions - Urology

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Hello, doctor.
I have some questions regarding erections.
I have no issues with sexual function; I can achieve an erection at home when I feel aroused.
However, in public places, I find it somewhat awkward and difficult to subside the erection.
There are no women available to assist, and I don't want to engage in sex work due to the risk of disease.
What can I do, doctor?

chiu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/02/19

Dr. Du Mingyi reply Urology


Being able to achieve an erection is a good thing and there is no need to worry or feel ashamed.
It is those who experience erectile dysfunction that face difficulties.

Reply Date: 2020/02/19

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Managing unwanted erections in public can be a challenging and sometimes embarrassing situation for many individuals. It’s important to understand that experiencing an erection is a natural physiological response and can occur for various reasons, including hormonal changes, physical stimulation, or even psychological triggers. Here are some strategies and tips to help manage this situation effectively:
1. Understanding Triggers: Recognizing what triggers your unwanted erections can be helpful. This could be certain thoughts, physical sensations, or even environmental factors. By identifying these triggers, you can work on minimizing exposure to them in public settings.

2. Distraction Techniques: When you feel an unwanted erection coming on, try to distract yourself. Focus on something mundane or mentally engage in a task that requires concentration. This could be counting backward from 100, reciting a poem, or thinking about a complex problem you need to solve.

3. Physical Adjustments: Adjusting your physical position can help. For instance, crossing your legs or shifting your weight can sometimes alleviate the pressure and help the erection subside. If you’re sitting, leaning forward slightly may also help.

4. Breathing Exercises: Deep breathing can help calm your body and mind. Practice slow, deep breaths to reduce anxiety and help your body relax, which may assist in reducing the erection.

5. Clothing Choices: Wearing looser-fitting clothing can help minimize the visibility of an erection and provide more comfort. Additionally, wearing underwear that offers good support can help manage the situation discreetly.

6. Mental Techniques: Engage in mental exercises that can help you regain control. Visualizing a non-sexual scenario or focusing on a task at hand can redirect your thoughts away from sexual arousal.

7. Timing and Environment: If you know you will be in a situation where an erection may be problematic, try to plan accordingly. For example, if you anticipate being in a crowded space, consider using the restroom beforehand to relieve any potential pressure.

8. Seeking Professional Help: If unwanted erections become a frequent issue that affects your daily life, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional. A doctor can help determine if there are underlying medical conditions or psychological factors contributing to the problem. They may also provide guidance on treatment options, including therapy or medication if necessary.

9. Understanding Normalcy: It’s essential to remember that experiencing unwanted erections is a common issue and does not indicate a problem with your sexual health. Many men experience this at some point in their lives, and it’s a normal part of human physiology.

10. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques can help you stay present and reduce anxiety about the situation. Practicing mindfulness can help you accept the moment without judgment and reduce the stress associated with unwanted erections.

In conclusion, while unwanted erections in public can be uncomfortable, they are a natural occurrence that many individuals experience. By employing distraction techniques, adjusting your physical position, and understanding your triggers, you can manage the situation more effectively. If the problem persists or causes significant distress, seeking professional advice can provide additional support and solutions tailored to your needs. Remember, it’s important to approach this topic with understanding and self-compassion, as it is a common human experience.

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