Feeling sleepy during the day and dreaming every night while sleeping?
Hello, doctor.
I would like to ask for your advice regarding my girlfriend.
Since we met, she has been expressing concerns about certain issues, and recently her symptoms seem to be worsening.
She experiences feelings similar to being chased and has many bizarre dreams that she remembers clearly.
Upon waking, she feels fatigued.
From my perspective, her daily routine seems normal, and she is the same age as I am.
She is also unsure about the root of her problems.
I am not quite sure how to help her improve, and she has some early signs of depression.
Her job mostly involves sitting, and she has little opportunity for exercise.
I'm not certain if these factors are related.
Could you please provide any suggestions or recommend which specialty she should consult for outpatient care? I apologize for the general nature of this information, as it is based on our conversations.
Lan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/05/22
Dr. Wang Zhenyang reply Psychiatry
Hello, sir: I apologize for the late response.
Dreams are related to the subconscious and are often connected to the stress we experience in our daily lives, which can trigger inner worries or fears.
If you are experiencing frequent insomnia or symptoms of depression that interfere with your daily life, I recommend consulting a psychiatrist or a psychosomatic specialist.
Medication treatment, possibly combined with psychotherapy, should be helpful.
Thank you, Dr.
Wang Zhenyang, Attending Physician and Director, Community Psychiatry Department, Taoyuan Psychiatric Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, No.
71 Longshou Street, Taoyuan District, Taoyuan City, TEL: 03-3698553 ext 2027 FAX: 03-3699498.
Reply Date: 2019/05/22
More Info
Daytime sleepiness and nightmares can be significant indicators of underlying mental health issues, particularly when they become more pronounced over time. Your girlfriend's experiences of vivid dreams, especially those involving themes of being chased or other distressing scenarios, coupled with feelings of fatigue upon waking, suggest that she may be dealing with a sleep disorder or anxiety-related condition.
Nightmares can often be linked to stress, anxiety, or unresolved trauma. They can disrupt sleep quality, leading to daytime sleepiness, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. The fact that your girlfriend has a history of mild depression may also contribute to her sleep disturbances. Depression and anxiety are known to affect sleep patterns, often leading to insomnia or fragmented sleep, which can exacerbate feelings of fatigue during the day.
Here are some recommendations on how to approach this situation:
1. Encourage Professional Help: It would be beneficial for your girlfriend to consult a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist. They can provide a thorough assessment of her mental health and sleep patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for treating insomnia and nightmares, as it addresses the thoughts and behaviors that contribute to sleep disturbances.
2. Sleep Hygiene Practices: Encourage her to adopt good sleep hygiene practices. This includes maintaining a consistent sleep schedule, creating a relaxing bedtime routine, and ensuring her sleep environment is conducive to rest (e.g., dark, quiet, and cool). Limiting screen time before bed and avoiding stimulants like caffeine in the afternoon can also help improve sleep quality.
3. Physical Activity: Since her job involves a lot of sitting, incorporating regular physical activity into her routine can significantly improve her mood and sleep quality. Exercise is known to reduce anxiety and depression symptoms, which may help alleviate her nightmares and daytime sleepiness.
4. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, yoga, or deep-breathing exercises can help reduce anxiety and improve overall mental health. These techniques can also be beneficial in managing stress, which may be contributing to her nightmares.
5. Journaling: Encourage her to keep a dream journal. Writing down her dreams can help her process any underlying emotions or stressors that may be contributing to her nightmares. It can also serve as a therapeutic outlet for her feelings.
6. Nutrition: A balanced diet can impact mental health and sleep quality. Encourage her to eat regular, nutritious meals and stay hydrated. Certain foods, like those rich in magnesium (e.g., leafy greens, nuts, seeds), can promote better sleep.
7. Limit Alcohol and Substance Use: If she consumes alcohol or recreational drugs, it may be worth discussing the potential impact these substances can have on her sleep and mental health. Reducing or eliminating these can lead to improvements in her overall well-being.
8. Regular Check-ins: As her partner, your support is crucial. Regularly check in with her about how she’s feeling and encourage open communication about her experiences. This can help her feel less isolated and more supported in her journey towards better mental health.
In summary, while your girlfriend's symptoms may be concerning, there are effective strategies and professional resources available to help her manage her sleep disturbances and mental health. Encouraging her to seek help and supporting her in making lifestyle changes can lead to significant improvements in her quality of life.
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